[Ask a Girl] 69 Bottom or Top ?

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  1. NyguY

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    This question is for both girls and guys...

    When in 69 do you prefer to be on the bottom or top?

    Me and my gf have been doing 69 since we started engaging in sexual encounters but just recently has she started wanting to get underneath me. She says she can fit more of my cock in her mouth that way I love it !!

    Looking forward to hearing everyone elses preferences..
     
  2. CruelTease

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    I like the sound of that, must give it a try.
     
  3. Texas_Red

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    I prefer to be on the bottom for 2 reasons off the top of my head: It gives me access to play with my partners butt (fingers tongue, etc); and, it keeps my partner in control of how much of me they take in. Were I on top, either by thrusting or just not paying attention it would be too easy to push in more than the partner may want/be able to handle. I'd rather leave the control of that up to my partner.
     
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    I like it side by side
     
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    Now that sounds interesting, but it seem you could get a sore neck pretty quick that way. I s'pose the same could be said for whoever is on top though too.
     
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    we very often start in a "T" position with one giving and one receiving. The receiver then starts with a hand and then bends to the side. Its sort of a hybrid because the original receiver can keep his or her ass on the bed (or floor or wherever) and twists the torso. My problem more often than a stiff neck is breathing. She tends to raise her upper leg so I can get at her and then she clamps down on me and holds me there till she comes.
     
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    Being the guy im always underneath, i think like someone has said its best that way for us incase i thrust to much in that she mightened be able to take. When shes on top as she gets really going i find myself finding it abit hard to breath as she clamps her fanny down on my mouth so hard, but at least i know she is liking it and i guess thats the main thing.
     
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    Normally I'm on bottom so she can control how much she takes in. Like TexRed said gives me a chance to play with her ass. But once in a great (by great I mean fantastic) while she'll want to be played with a little rough and be submissive. Then I'll get on top.
     
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    yeah i'm usually on top, easier not to choke that way
     
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    I would like to try both sides, but being at the bottom seems more appealing to me with better view of hers.
     
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    I prefer being on bottom since I like to explore my wife's her body while I eat her pussy, so I can easily fondle her tits and ass. She likes being on top as it gives her better control of my cock and balls as she sucks We both like the visuals each of us see in that position, and it is also easier for both of us to cum with her on top and me on the bottom, so we are well matched. :D
     
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    I'm on the bottom, I love to feel my girl on top of me and well she is a lot smaller then I am
     
  13. Alwayslearningsex

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    I rather be on the bottom for her sake although I have this fanyasy I can thrust my entire cock in her mouth. Few could do that I suppose but this is distracting for her when she should be enjoying herself too.
    In the end I prefer taking turns going down on each other, full attention and best sensations. She does me first, I go down long enough until I get hard again.
     
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    I really do prefer being on the bottom. im a big girl so im afraid il hurt him. i also like being on the bottom as for the few minutes i can perform oral i find it easier access.
     
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    im with texas red. also, i dont think it would be as sexy with me on top haha.
     
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    I like to be on the bottom, but prefer side by side.
     
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    I had a girlfriend a few years back who, for whatever reason, always started off with getting on top of me in a 69. We seemed to do it a lot in the daytime too. I always felt so content eating her pussy and looking up between her wonderful ass cheeks at the ceiling. Her sucking was great, but I'll never forget the wonderful feeling of her on top of me and the taste and scent of her while I looked up between her lovely cheeks. I married my ex shortly after I broke up with this one and she didn't like 69. My current squeeze likes to 69 but I've never had that same feeling again.
     
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    TOP all the way, so I can wriggle and push down :cheer
     
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    First off this is my first post yay :p
    My wife and I switch it up depending on the mood but one of my fav. Is me on tod so I can go back and forth in her mouth and between her breasts. I only do this if she requests it but ya good times
     
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    I prefer to be on bottom. The view is a bit more grand.:)