My wife of almost 22 years and I once had an amazing sexual relationship but long story short: not quite the same anymore. There have been a few stops and starts but we have basically settled into a rut where she takes care of me when I am in need but she has little if any desire. That fact alone stresses her out and she doesn't like to talk about it. Since she is an amazing lover I can still get by but I long for the days of great sex. A couple of weeks ago we were out to dinner with friends who mentioned 50 Shades of Gray which has topped all kinds of best seller lists. It has invigorated their sex life. When we got home though my wife was dismissive but last night she went out with adifferent friend and came home with the book. She hasn't mentioned it yet but she left it out where I might see it. So far I haven't said anyting. I looked through it and some of the writing is very hot. I am hoping she feels the same. Has anybody read this book? Is it as good as some people say it is?