[Ask a Girl] 3some? mff?

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  1. lil_demon18

    lil_demon18 New Member

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    My hubby wants a 3some but I don't Really feel like that great about it. I don't like the idea of another women touching or being touched sexually by him. I feel jealous and feel like he would suddenly be attracked to this other women. So I need help deciding if its worth a Try or if it will just ruin our relationship.
     
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    If you're not really feeling up to it and having jealousy issues, then it's probably a very bad idea. I'd say you and your husband need to talk about it at length, and your fears and worries need to be heard. Hopefully he'll be understanding, and you guys will either work through it, or he'll drop it.
     
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    I want To Try new things and so does he I just don't know if its worth it.
     
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    It's not. Unless you're both totally into it it won't work.
     
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    Well now I am.
     
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    I don't know lil demon,
    I'm a swinger now with my partner and I was before when I was single.
    And both now or then if I smelt/ sensed "Jealousy" from the other girl then I would run away fast. Most "unicorns" (single woman) and couples that swing usually if they have any sense will want to cam with you both, meet you in a neutral setting, your jealousy will be sniffed out pretty quickly.
    Single women that swing don't do it because they want to get bitch slapped by a jealous wife or girlfriend.

    Jealousy is the killer to successful swinging