Hello, new on here. I joined to ask some questions. I brought the topic of a 3 way up with my GF because I was curious her opinion (us with another woman), and she's seeming interested now that she's thought about it. I'm wondering how any of you that have done this have searched for the third person? she will obviously need to be STD free, as one of my favorite things is eating out/fingering (which, also, I've been told I'm very good at, so I would want to share), but what's the best way to find someone when you don't already have someone in mind?