3 to 13 minutes!

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  1. JuicyB

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    I just read a CNN report that the "ideal" screw lasts between 3 and 13 minutes! I was shocked! I've enjoyed "quickies" where both of us "let 'er rip" and intentionally try to do it as fast and as furious as possible! But then for a nice "afternoon delight" or a "Saturday Night Special" I can't imagine less than 20 minutes!

    The same report says that horny young guys, and older middle aged guys can't keep it up past the 13 minute limit anyway! Do all of you out there agree with this? I have my doubts!
     
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    unfortunately for the females of your species it would seem that the estimate of time in relation to duration is accurate. I am very glad I am an alien...45 minutes to an hour is preferable...or more if the situation permits. :D
     
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    Well, I can last MUCH longer than thirteen, and have never gone less than ten, so that deals with that part of the report. As far as the duration, a quickie is good once in a while or to stave off horniness when you're about to be in a situation where it could cause problems or be inappropriate. However, as from what my SO and I have discovered from discussions of this particular subject, our ideal time is around twenty-five minutes to a half hour.
     
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    It really depends what the girl wants from me. I can be done within 5 minutes or 10 hours. Whatever makes her day. Sometimes I can't control it but usually I can.
     
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    Yeah, it really depends on the couple, I'd say. Sometimes, my husband and I go for an hour or more, sometimes, only a few minutes. But, I have to say, more than an hour, and I get really sore.
     
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    I reckon that I'm one that belongs in those stats. Foreplay for ever. Maybe insert for a while, make some motions and take out, hell, I could last for hours if we played around. But straight fucking, there is no way I could go past 15 minutes of fast friction on my hard penis (most of the time, a lot less)

    My wife just started reading this thread so I have to take back the 15 minutes, and admit it's more like 10 at the most :eek:
     
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    we average 15-30 minutes. I wish we could do it more often though. I thought the older a woman get the more she wants it
     
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    If I started and didn't stop it would be over in no time. I think that people are confusing the act itself with the entire lovemaking process including foreplay. The whole thing usually lasts 30-45 minutes for us and part of that reason is because we both get up early and have to wait for the kids to fall asleep which doesn't leave us a lot of time. Ideally it would last for about an hour for me. When we first starting dating 1 1/2-2 hrs was the norm for us. Damn, I miss those days.
     
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    I never have a problem keeping it up for long periods of time -- an hour or two isn't any problem, especially with a little Cialis. I might wear out, but I never go flat.
     
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    I think the length of time you last has a lot to do with how long you have gone without.

    Personally I'd say i last for an average of 45min but sometimes when im seriously horny and haven't had it for a while I could be satisfied within 10min - but then again my gf is into it just as much as i am, and thats a lot.
     
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    20 is where i cant imagine it being any lower than either. Women though are multi-orgasmic far more than men. Or in my expirence at least. And i will last as long as possible usually cum about twice myself. But the whole purpose is to make the women cum as many times as possible. Which is usually 3-5 times in about an hour to hour and half. Of course that is limited to 3 girls for me. But over 100 times.
     
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    I have to agree with evman. The actual act itself between 10-15 mins. Its all the foreplay that my SO and I spend time doing. Depending on the circumstances (tiredness, horniness, etc..) we can play around for 45-60 mins before we actually have sex. Especially on our "date nights" when I've had a few drinks. :brow We can make the foreplay last for a while. :D
     
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    I aim for ten minutes or so, which suits us both. Any longer and we both get sore, especially afterwards, but that might be a side-effect of my girth. I played around with times a bit and then asked my wife what she preferred, and she told me ten minutes or a bit less.

    The actual ideal duration was 7 to 13 minutes, with acceptable being 3 to 7, and never longer than 13. For men, it's probably best to ask your partner just how long she wants it to last.
     
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    Just enjoy every minute

    When people are having straight intercourse its does not go on that long,My wife and I have watched too many couples to count have sex at swingers and the time frame in the study is pretty close even though as in anything its not set in stone.We have been to clubs around the world and it hold true all over.
     
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    "3 - 13 minutes"? :whoa

    That's what Thorn & I call Mercy Sex (and the word 'sex' is used liberally there!) We'd both be left feeling cheated, if that was our usual time of indulgence! For real sex, we always make sure we've got at least an hour - foreplay....oral.....switching-up positions....more oral....more positions...more oral... orgasms...after-glow.....
     
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    Now theres a routine if ever I saw it.....:D
     
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    Swear to God that is a play by play from last night(throw in a few toys).
     
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    I think people are mixing up actual intercourse times with how long people make love for...

    I dont think there are many guys alive who can have intercourse for more than 20 minutes straight without stopping.

    I honestly have great control over when I cum, and being inside a woman feels way too good to hold off any longer than that.

    I can have sex for over 2+ hours if I stop and tease her, perform oral, have her give me a BJ,etc when I feel myself reaching an orgasm... you have to pull out and back things off - there is no possible way a guy can pump away for half an hour and hold it off.

    I can't see any guy who has a normal sized dick being able to pump away for 30+ minutes without cumming... it feels way too good to hold off that long.

    If a guy claims to be able to have straight intercourse for 30+ minutes or an hour + IMHO he either can't feel anything or is full of BS.
     
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    I'm with you on that!
     
  20. Joe

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    Fliteskates,
    You seem to be under the misconception that all guys are like you, and that we remain that way all our lives. Tain't so. Some could go for hours and never be able to reach orgasm. I don't think dick *size* has anything to do with how quickly we orgasm.

    Some guys blow their load with the first stroke, other can't get off in two hours, most are somewhere in between. Personally, I could last as long as my endurance would allow. Normally, unless I've been without for a couple weeks, I have to concentrate a little to get off. That's partly due to age, partly due to medical problems I've had, but it's not uncommon. My wife gets sore after 20-30 minutes, so I try to get off in that amount of time. Also, if I don't get off in a half hour, I probably won't in an hour, as I get kind of desensitized after awhile.