Okay, so my wife is TOTALLY infatuated with a friend of mine, who happens to be a girl. If my wife were to ever be with a girl at all, it would be with her because she is "smoking hot," as stated by my wife. As exciting as this may be, it still makes me feel slightly uneasy. Almost as if she is cheating but I know it wouldn't be emotional for her, just physical, which I'm okay with. My wife isn't in love with my friend. She just wants to make out with her, but I don't think my wife would want me around during their encounter. The reason I would want to be present is so that I could be there when my wife experiences this for the first time. I want to see her in that state of ecstasy. Not because I want to have sex with my friend, which I wouldn't mind but would not, out of respect for my wife. I just want to be there partly to make sure it is just physical for my wife and, of course, partly to see 2 girls making out. It would totally turn me on seeing my wife with another girl. BUT, I want to be very clear. This is NOT intended to be a threesome for me to be with 2 girls. This is a threesome for my wife, to experience the only girl she would ever want to experience where she wouldn't oppose the encounter. I want to reiterate, I would not be having sex with my friend. My question to you all is this. How should I approach my wife about this? How should I proposition my friend, who also has a BF? Here's is the situation as I want it to happen. I want my friend to come and stay with us and throughout the evening flirt with my wife here and there. And at an opportune moment start rubbing my wife's leg, or something that would get my wife's attention. With me there, of course. And as they start getting into it, I join in helping my friend please my wife. Given that my friend is down for anything, which we don't know yet, what do you think is the best course of action? I know my friend is attracted to my wife. They flirt all of the time. I would love to get thoughts, especially from other females. This would basically be a sexual encounter, just with another girl involved in helping to pleasure my wife. Thanks for any input or insight! Obviously not, 'Darren'