I haven't been on the site in awhile. I hope those who read this post will understand the place of pain it comes from. I am a generally upbeat, happy person whom people love to be with. I have absolutely no problem approaching and talking to the opposite sex and can easily get a date. But I never get laid...ever. The title of this post is no exaggeration. My youngest daughter turns 21 in a few weeks. Her conception was the last time I've had sex, since her mother would never let me touch her after that. Her mother and I divorced 8 years ago...and I'm still not getting laid. And this does not, as some have claimed, mean I don't want sex or have less drive than others. Like most men, I think of it often. I've read books on the subject, seen a psychologist and still have no success. Even my female friends don't understand it, because they say I'm attractive and fun to be with. As you can imagine, after this long, I have almost no hope any longer.