Hi, I'm a newbie here so bare with me. I'm a 21 year old guy, a bit on the chubby side and I don't consider myself exactly attractive. I'm still a virgin, not only regarding sex, but also regarding dating or any sort of contact with girls (like kissing). I feel like a loser, especially since all of my friends are in a stable relationship or have had a sexual relationship before. And I notice that, in a lot of places, if you're still a virgin at 19, it's already really bad. There must be something really wrong with me, but I don't know what. And yes I am very shy, and my self-esteem isn't exactly high up. I'm also a geek. Am I a future "40 year old virgin?" Thanks for listening.