1st night swingers club

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  1. Nycblonde

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    So the new bf and I went to Bowery Bliss tonight in NYC... Had great time... He was very protective and we had a great time (or 3) but creeped out by the "hawkers" (his word) for the men checking me out... Was shocked at the male to female ratio
     
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    Always envied that swinging lifestyle... Sounds like fun, just never seem to get around to doing it....
     
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    what was it like. always wondered how that would b
     
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    It was nice SO much better than Trapezze!! But the number of single men was a little too much but he (the boyfriend ) was very protective of our established rules. We will be going back!!
     
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    We usually attend clubs that have a limit on single males. There is nothing worse than going to a club and feeling like it's just a meat market for the guys. Luckily most guys here are very respectful. Rules are very necessary! Communication is key in the lifestyle! I can't stress that enough. If you both have guidelines for the night then it is going to be a great night! Also, we have a gesture that we use to let the other know that a situation is uncomfortable. That is a great way to keep the night light and fun.
     
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    I know some clubs usually have couples only nights...keep the ratio in check.
     
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    We did let the staff know of the "odd" exchanges and both single males were removed from the club!!