18 too young for erection problems?

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  1. mrmanguy2

    mrmanguy2 New Member

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    It might be that I watch too much porn or masturbate too much but I can't stay hard very long when I'm with my gf..I don't know why. Do you think there is a problem?
     
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    I have masturbated a lot since i was a preteen, doesnt effect me . so i doubt that is the problem.

    Watching porn and thinking that is the way love making is , could be a problem, but the best advice i would say is go and see your GP for advice and to have some checks done.
    It could be a mental thing , and if so the gp can refer you to a suitable person that can help you .
     
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    My guess is that She is not as stimulating
    as the porn Gals are.
    Think I would get a prettier G/F or watch less Porn.

    And the prettiest Gal at :sf is already taken, so look somewhere else.

    Hiker
     
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    Prettiest for you Hiker hehe :)..but already taken by her husband.

    But i think just going for a check up is best advice going. at least then you will be able to know what was the cause
     
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    Stress? Ever feel like there is too much pressure on you to perform? This may be why...
     
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    You gave us your theory, so test it. Stop watching porn completely (at least for the time being), and limit your masturbation to once a day at most. Do this for a few days and see if it affects your performance.

    If not, there is something else to consider. Stress to perform really is a big one. If you or her have any expectations along the lines of how fast you should be able to get hard or from what stimulation, it is probably wrong. Don't worry about taking your time and doing what feels natural to get hard. There is a good chance that it is a mental thing that is stopping you.

    If this doesn't work, it could be physical. It could be erectile dysfunction, but if you can get hard under pornography-viewing circumstances, then that probably isn't it. It could also be from poor health. A strong cardiovascular system makes for a very hard penis that is generally very responsive to stimulation. Get some more exercise if you think you need it. Finally, it could be hunger. I know with myself, if I am really hungry I am thinking about food more than sex and don't have much energy for sex, so I just need to eat something. Sometimes I go for a long time without eating around my partner because, one, she doesn't eat that much, and two, we focus on each other for so long that we don't always get around to meals when we should.
     
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    I forgot excercise. I'm not fat, I'm really athletic but I have stopped excercising lately because of work. That is probably one reason. I'm so stupid for forgetting about that
     
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    Try no masturbation for 1, 2, 3 days and see if that works. Probably skip the porn too.