1 week no orgasms

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  1. ShanikaJ

    ShanikaJ New Member

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    Its been a week for me now, bf is away and I want to wait for him. anyone else find this hard to do?? am i a horndog or what?
     
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    an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

    Honey, take care of yourself. Really.

    You'll enjoy it so much more when you get the real thing
     
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    Idk ifni could handle an entire week wo. But if yur feeling uneasy about it, ask him if he has a prob w it. I doubt he will and if he does, idt that's fair.
     
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    Honestly, I went two and a half months without any stimulation whatsoever. That was my best. Of course the context was very different and I wasn't in a place where I thought "Gee wiz, I wish I could crank one off right now."

    That said when I got home I nearly killed myself masturbating that night.
     
  5. ShanikaJ

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    haha might as well just wait it out now, he will be back tomorrow.
     
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    Phone sex him?
     
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    I can understand your thinking behind this but I'm not sure that you will find it more satisfying by holding out. Why not simply enjoy yourself. The experience when he returns will be different in any case and may be more fulfilling if you are in less of a rush?
     
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    Pfft a week. Ive heard women say months. A week for a man is almost impossible. Even at like 4 days for me I cant even sleep cuz I wanna blow off a big ass load all over. But Im sure he will enjoy all your juices youve saved up
     
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    I can't sleep if I'm horny so I would have trouble denying myself.

    I believe that for women, orgasms fuel the desire for more of the same but if you go a long time without them, the libido shuts down to cope. (Similar to appetite loss during starvation) Therefore you may actually find it hard to cum when you really want to. I would advise the opposite tact - masturbate heaps, especially on the day you expect to see him and you'll be on a sexual high.
     
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    haha its all good now.

    I did wait for him and DAMN it was good.

    but yea I can deny myself its not that tough.
     
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    This is exactly how I am.. The longer I go without, the less I care. But the more regularly I'm getting off, the more I want it and the more I need it.
     
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    Yep, I've done this. Went for 6 weeks without an orgasm and found that I was becoming desensitised. Didn't even feel like doing it. Decided that I needed to sort that and it wasn't even enjoyable, but it got the process started again.

    This is why I made my earlier comment.
     
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    woah! six weeks is too long. I cant wait that long as for my self I rather self pleasuring my self than waiting him that long. I know that the long wait would be the best thing but not too long for me. i can hold on for about 2 to 3 weeks beyond that i couldnt control my self.
     
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    How the hell did you go that long!? Seriously my record since the very first day I discovered that touching my penis feels good was at the beginning of 5 days.
     
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    Not sure about others, but for me, after a couple of days, the urge will just disappear. I don't know what my longest is though, never really thought about it.
     
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    theres no way that i would be able to go that long with out self pleasing
     
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    video sex him.
     
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    Longest was about 9 months and a few days. I can remember the days but my GF wanted to see how long before i broke.