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I love my job. My income is more than I ever expected when I entered this career almost 30 years ago. However, with the financial benefits comes a lot of stress. Most of the time I handle it fine, as I am a
problem solver and like these challenges. But at times the stress caused me to focus so much on dealing with the situation that my sex drive was hindered. This has never made Bunnie happy. She deals with stress in the opposite way - when she gets stressed, sex helps her to relax. ...

In my "birds of a feather" blog post ( [Link] ) I described how Bunnie's close friends all have a similar, wonderful mindset on sexuality in their marriages. One manifestation of this friendship, which I and the other husbands thoroughly enjoy, is what I call the "sexy wives parties". These are get togethers where the wives, regardless of their age, dress and act to deliberately turn their husbands...

Recently I was severely under the weather for a few days with what was either a bad cold or a mild case of the flu. During this time Bunnie was, as always, doing every she could to make me comfortable. I rested as best as I could in bed (with only enough energy to go online and look at this forum). We did not have any sex for about 3 days, which never happens unless one of is out of town or very ill.

When my fever broke I started feeling a little better and felt my strength coming back....

(WARNING: This is a long post)

Late one afternoon, Bunnie calls me at work.

"Guess what! we have an 'empty nest' for the evening and overnight!"

"Great!" I exclaim.

"Any ideas?" she asks. I can sense the wicked smile in her voice.

"You know.... you haven't been my movie star for a while..."

"You pervert!" Bunnie exclaims. "When do we start?"

"I'll...

Cowboy Lovers' recent thread on "how long did it take you to become good" triggered a session of introspection within me. Having only had sex with my Bunnie, there are those who might certainly say I cannot be "good" at sex since I have not been with a variety of women. However, I am more inclined to judge any "goodness" in have in this area by how my Bunnie feels about it. I am one who tends to evaluate my "goodness" based on how others view my actions (this...