http://www.sexualforums.com/ Having relation problems? Need advice? Come discuss relationships with your fellow peers. en Fri, 10 Sep 2010 19:54:26 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.sexualforums.com/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.sexualforums.com/ http://www.sexualforums.com/27394-will-i-ever-be-ready.html Thu, 09 Sep 2010 18:21:15 GMT My husband and I have been talking about a threesome for only about a week or so. I want a MMF so badly and maybe have someone lined up to talk to, but I yet have begun to come close to accepting... My husband and I have been talking about a threesome for only about a week or so. I want a MMF so badly and maybe have someone lined up to talk to, but I yet have begun to come close to accepting FMF. I do love him so freakn much but to see him even kissing another woman makes me feel a streak of anger. He has told me how much he loves all aspecs of women and he looks and thinks of them all the time but the thought always ends with me pleasing him. We will not go forward until I get past that strong feelings. But how do I do it??????? ( get past the feelings) ]]> Sex and Relationships awakened http://www.sexualforums.com/27394-will-i-ever-be-ready.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27382-does-size-truely-matter.html Wed, 08 Sep 2010 03:13:37 GMT I love my husband very much. He's not "well endowed" but he's not small either. He has an average sized penis, but a lot of times after we make love I am left feeling unsatisfied. I'm a plus sized woman, so some positions are just physically impossible. Is there a position other than doggy style that will maximize my pleasure while still being pleasurable for him? ]]> Sex and Relationships LovingWife http://www.sexualforums.com/27382-does-size-truely-matter.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27369-help-with-problem.html Mon, 06 Sep 2010 16:57:01 GMT Hi everyone: My name is Alisa and I have just joined today. Have not viewed much of the site yet, but wanted to introduce myself. I am here for help with a problem I have. You see, I am a married... Hi everyone: My name is Alisa and I have just joined today. Have not viewed much of the site yet, but wanted to introduce myself. I am here for help with a problem I have. You see, I am a married woman but have met a man I really like. Yes, I like my husband, but for a few years now I have been falling out of love with him. The man a met does not know how I feel about him. I really would like to go ALL THE WAY and I mean all the way. If this is not the section for advice please advise me which section I may go to receive help. Should I tell this man how I feel or should I just let nature take it's course. (Sorry for my rambaling on.) ]]> Sex and Relationships Alisa http://www.sexualforums.com/27369-help-with-problem.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27356-most-girls-bore-me-should.html Sun, 05 Sep 2010 20:31:36 GMT So I just went back to class recently and I've scoped out some decent looking girls in a few of my classes. After talking to them, they are nice but still boring to me. I really could care less if I end up going out with them but sex of some kind would be nice, but not worth the effort of having to play the whole seduction game with girls that bore me. I've found this to be the case with myself more and more, I'm really not interested enough to actively pursue anyone and if I am they had better give in easily or I'll just say "fuck it" and go home and jerk off. As I've gotten older I like girls who seem unique, but I don't have the patience to become interested. It might be because I'm into a specific type, and it's a type I never find. But don't want to be alone forever either, should I just settle or what? ]]> Sex and Relationships Evil_goodguy http://www.sexualforums.com/27356-most-girls-bore-me-should.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27350-sf-noob.html Sun, 05 Sep 2010 00:21:47 GMT Just posted my first thread and thought I should say hello... I'm sure I'll be posting much more... ]]> Sex and Relationships Brycedaddy http://www.sexualforums.com/27350-sf-noob.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27335-new-here.html Fri, 03 Sep 2010 23:40:03 GMT im new on here or at least returning after a long absence and had a question recently i found out my wife of 12 yrs cheated on me for the first 10 yrs with several men both friends and strangers... im new on here or at least returning after a long absence and had a question
recently i found out my wife of 12 yrs cheated on me for the first 10 yrs with several men both friends and strangers when i found this out i was quiet shocked and pissed i am still with her but am not exactly sure what i wanna do stay or leave we have 2 daughters and i still love her so i wanna stay but i am not sure i can trust her but when i think bout the stuff she told me she did it turns me on somewhat and i think maybe we should just have an open marriage even though i have no desire for another women but it might be a turn on to let her have fun and tell me bout it what advice do all of you out there give me both male and female ]]> Sex and Relationships housguy35 http://www.sexualforums.com/27335-new-here.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27299-sex-drives-come-go-dont.html Thu, 02 Sep 2010 05:31:19 GMT Probably not, but for some reason mine does. At 16 i couldnt have enough sex and now at only 24 its realy not at the top of my to do list. Now thats not to say i dont enjoy sex as i love it and i... Probably not, but for some reason mine does. At 16 i couldnt have enough sex and now at only 24 its realy not at the top of my to do list. Now thats not to say i dont enjoy sex as i love it and i am incredibly open to just about anything that doesnt involve pain or fecis. That being said i cant figure out what is wrong with me, some days/weeks its all i think about and others nothing natta i cant even bring myself to fake it. On average we have sex 1-2 a month and on good months 5-6 times she is almost always up for it but for some reason im not. Sexualy i am very attracted to her she is great and the sex we do have is also great what are your thoughts? ]]> Sex and Relationships Username1 http://www.sexualforums.com/27299-sex-drives-come-go-dont.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27287-sex-after-breakup-friends-benefits.html Wed, 01 Sep 2010 02:00:08 GMT Hello all: So in a nutshell, my boyfriend broke up with me on August 9th. We started as best friends, and four years later we dated for several months, now broken up but still best friends. Always... Hello all:
So in a nutshell, my boyfriend broke up with me on August 9th. We started as best friends, and four years later we dated for several months, now broken up but still best friends. Always best friends. That is something he insisted on, and I do as well. What sparked the romance was that we became "friends with benefits". Our sex is spectacular, and we do things with one another that we would never do with someone else. My feelings for him were so strong that I was going to ask him to marry me.

The problem is that there is still a sexual attraction. I really want to continue to be "friends with benefits". Badly. He is not so crazy about the idea. He just had major surgery and really wants to not have sex or even date for at least a year, so he can sort out his issues. He knows, though, that from time to time he will get horny, and that I would be the only person on his list to have sex with. But he is concerned that if we had sex that it would only confuse and upset me. I told him that I can separate sex from love, and that I very much want sex to be an option.

I'm wondering if this is a good idea or not. We can't help our attraction to one another, and we both know that our sex is amazing. I'm pretty sure I can separate the sex from the love that I'm recovering from, but deep down there is a part of me that doubts it. I don't admit this to him, though. I just have a really hard time keeping my hands off him. Still, when I'm with him, I find myself stroking his thighs (my favorite part of him), to which he typically does not object. Sometimes he pulls back when I do, telling me that he's "on and off" about it.

So is continuing to have sex a bad idea? I know I'll heal from the romantic part of things, but honestly, the sex is what I'm missing the most. It's to the point that masturbation does not quell my desire for him, as discussed in a previous post I made here. What I'm most afraid of is that if I don't have sex with him that I will find it elsewhere. Specifically online. It's so easy to hook up with someone here. I did that all the time years ago, and I don't want to do that again. It made me feel dirty, and not in a good way. Plus, it's dangerous.

I welcome all advice. I really, really want to get past this. ]]> Sex and Relationships Mongatron http://www.sexualforums.com/27287-sex-after-breakup-friends-benefits.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27244-how-jealous-are-you.html Thu, 26 Aug 2010 21:52:56 GMT I was talking to a female friend the other day and the topic of cheating came up. She told me that if she ever caught her husband cheating she would beat him to a pulp and then divorce him and fleece... I was talking to a female friend the other day and the topic of cheating came up. She told me that if she ever caught her husband cheating she would beat him to a pulp and then divorce him and fleece him for as much money as possible. She's quite a dominant type and is always phoning her husband as if she doesn't quite believe he is where he says he is.

Her husband, as far as I know, is a very hard-working decent individual. His wife has made him give up all his friends, while still keeping all hers. I can't help but feel that she wants him all to herself. Her husband used to be a fun person to be around, but now he seems kind of timid and care-worn. I didn't want to get involved but I did say to her that she should perhaps monitor him less, as her fears of him cheating or lying may in fact push him into the arms of another (self-fulfilling prophecy).

I guess I was curious as to how many people experience jealousy and what qualities in one person may trigger it in their partner.

Are you jealous, and if so why or why not? Or is your partner jealous? Is she always half-joking, half seriously saying she would chop off your man-parts if you were to cheat? Do you constantly have to text or phone your SO to ask them what they are doing? ]]> Sex and Relationships Marcpatrick http://www.sexualforums.com/27244-how-jealous-are-you.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27149-my-lack-of-a-past.html Fri, 20 Aug 2010 06:20:54 GMT Hello all,

I'm not sure who to ask about this, but I wanted to try here.

I'm young(ish) and have only had 2 women I've been sexual with. An ex and a current. And the current I love--seriously. And I am generally looking forward to a future with her--marriage, total commitment, a life. But I keep having this nagging feeling that I am missing out on more...experience. I'm not sure how much of it is irrational or just something natural or what. But as I've been contemplating big decisions, I've been wishing I had been with more women. Or that I could be with more women before I make a commitment (obviously I'm not ready for that yet lol.)

It isn't something overwhelming or something that I think about a lot--but it comes back. I keep wondering if I am going to be missing the chance to experience more before things are permanently set.

Bigger picture stuff...it is possible that I'm not "truly" in love--not yet, but I seriously feel like my life is much better with my current relationship than without. And obviously I'm not ready for commitment and all that.... I am processing all of that currently.

I guess what I'm wondering is--is this something I will regret? Not having told her how I feel and potentially acting on it? Or is it just something that will fade with time?

Thanks for any insight! ]]> Sex and Relationships bricolage http://www.sexualforums.com/27149-my-lack-of-a-past.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27114-having-issues-making-my-girlfriend.html Wed, 18 Aug 2010 07:14:13 GMT So recently I have been presented with a new challenge that I have never seen before. I cant seem to get my girlfriend to cum when going down on her or when fingering her G-spot, I can only make her... So recently I have been presented with a new challenge that I have never seen before. I cant seem to get my girlfriend to cum when going down on her or when fingering her G-spot, I can only make her climax during sex. I asked her if I was doing anything wrong and she simply stated that she has never really came from other men going down on her. Well I am certainly not an expert in the field but I have been able to make most of my previous girlfriends cum when going down on them or fingering their G-spot without serious challenge and I haven't changed my technique much with my current girlfriend.

So I am wondering is it true that some girls mainly only cum during intercourse or is she just "different" and requires some technique beyond my current understanding? I have researched the Internet and found that some girls prefer a G-spot massage and other prefer a clitoral massage but the overwhelming majority of the information I have seen states that stimulating the clit is really the sure ticket to getting her off. Any suggestions? I figured next I will try some toys, I am confident that has to work. If it matters, she is about 29. ]]> Sex and Relationships audiobahn1000 http://www.sexualforums.com/27114-having-issues-making-my-girlfriend.html http://www.sexualforums.com/27057-break-up-and-masturbation.html Thu, 12 Aug 2010 00:59:27 GMT Hello all:
First time posting here. So my boyfriend just broke up with me the day before yesterday and I'm totally devastated. I would give details, but for this post it's not really pertinent.

My question/problem is this. Even though I'm really down in the dumps, crying a lot, etc, part of me wants to masturbate. I'm worried that this might make me feel worse. I should note that I always use pornography when masturbating.

Has anyone else out there felt bad/guilty about masturbating right after being dumped? Am I being silly? I'm afraid to do anything that might make me feel worse. In case it matters, though it shouldn't, I'm a 34-year-old gay male coming out of a six month relationship that sprang from being best friends for five years.

Any help/suggestions are very much appreciated! ]]> Sex and Relationships Mongatron http://www.sexualforums.com/27057-break-up-and-masturbation.html