Thanks all!!!! I have been paddled and spanked with his bare hand and recently, with his leather belt. It's all divinely painful but no marks. I do run and my bottom is not jiggly. Maybe it *is* super human!!! guess part of the fun is in trying
when he spanks your ass have him cup his hand a bit, this creates suction and ive had good luck bruising with this method in the past. i dont bruise easily so belts and this type ot hard spank over and over do the trick
If your SO continues to spank the same general area over and over, with some sensual touch in between times you should see better results. I have watched people spank and leave marks on others. I have used a wooden spoon on Mr. RN a time or two. Gave him his birthday spanks with it. Also have used a riding crop, paddles, floggers and bare hands. Some people use gloves that have sand in them also.
We were in the midst of a more primal session the other night and the wife bit my shoulder, I still have a mark from that. Just the kinkster in me, but I like seeing it as much as I liked the feeling when she did it to me.