Is it possible to be truly in love with two people at once?

Sure it's possible, I'm in love with two, my wife and myself.

Logically, yes. In fact you can probably be truly in love with more than that. The difficulty is in making sure everyone is treated/feels treated equally and is as open to/okay with such a scenario, otherwise all kinds of ugliness breaks out in the form of jealousy and competitiveness etc.

The reality is that there are so many more dynamics to consider beyond just the feeling of love.

I knew it!

Hey, at least I stopped buying myself Xmas and birthday presents.

Absolutely possible, because it has happened to me. What is more unusual is that the love for the new partner made the love for my existing partner stronger. Unlike you CL, my relationships aren't virtual, so the love grew through meeting one-another, going out for coffee, going to her place and having sex, and so on. For her it was casual 'cause she liked me and my style, for me it started that way but grew into love because she was a beautiful and lovely person with the most delightful and caring personality.

I have only deeply loved two women, and both at the same time!

I was born that way im afraid lol

I have found I can love two people in different ways. I had a couple of male friends I had some feelings for before I met Blue. They were complete oposites in every aspect, but they each held certain qualities I was atracted to. Once Blue came along it was different. He had more of what I was looking for than both put together. After Blue, I didn't give either of the others a second thought.

Dreamer60

it all depends on what love is to you. loving isn't hard to do, having a true love... well thats different

Agreed.

The way I see it - if you have children do you just love one or do you love them all each in their own way?

The same goes for adult romances and love interests. We can love more than one person - it would be unhealthy if we didn't.

i say no, it may be possible to love one and desire the other enough to fool your self thinking you love them.....

or it may actually be possible to love two people at the same time.....granted if your soul is strong enough to endure very hard heartaches if its true love for both.

Yes.
I was in love with a man which i know i couldn't give him a happy life and had to end things with him, it was very very hard for me and i felt i wasn't ready yet, but i didn't want to hurt him further than i had.
So i moved on to the guy i'm with currently, Mr.Perfect. For a long time even after the break up i was still in love with the other guy. It's tough, but i think it is possible, they were different kinds of love, and that's my reasons.

It all depends on what "in love" means to you. you can love someone, be in love with someone, be infatuated with someone, have an extreme crush on someone (that may seem like love because of the thrill of the unknown)... the possibilities are endless. just got to sit back one day and let yourself ponder all the reasons you thing you feel this way about the people you feel this way about.

Yep, I agree with that, different types and degrees of love and infatuation. And then there's the ever popular lust, just to warp your perspective.

I agree with that too.

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