Domination/rape Rp/ bdsm

BlasphemousGirl · 02-26-11

Andretti, Thank you, you've been quite helpful. I appreciate the responses from all of you!

FrenchAccent · 03-01-11

My advice : Show him pictures, web-sites, and tell him you enjoy the pictures you are watching. May be buy a book (like Nawa Shibari), and again tell him you wish you were one of the models.
Your spouse is a lucky bastard !

missyc · 03-24-11

I love this fantasy...

Chronichaze · 03-25-11

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Originally Posted by BlasphemousGirl

How do you aproach this Without freaking out your spouse?!?

So, for starters-- my s.o and i have a pretty amazing sex life , * when * we have sex--its never dull. Far from "vanilla". Weve got toys, porn, open minds. However, secretly, im quite a bit kinkier than he is . Im certain of it ( or hes just pro at hidig his kink. Which sucks lol) Hes not nearly as open minded as myself.

I want to express to him my fantasies for being dominated-whipped,tied, choked,bit etc. , and rape like RP. But, im not sure what..er how to approach it. I know he hates being tied. He hasnt ever expressed opinions on anything else besides that.
Any guys have advice, ideas, experiences? (women too !)

So you're trying to be dominated, not dominate him? Fuck being tied as a guy. Most guys are going to want to control the pace. Having a girl tied up is hot though. So if you played rape would you be like kicking and screaming for help or is he supposed to just take you at no notice and just roughly fuck you? haha, good stuff.

It may sound fucked up but I think most guys are going to be down with that. The act is hot. Not like you're taking a women's soul and dignity like would be the case with actual rape

Flame · 04-15-11

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Originally Posted by BlasphemousGirl

How do you aproach this Without freaking out your spouse?!?

So, for starters-- my s.o and i have a pretty amazing sex life , * when * we have sex--its never dull. Far from "vanilla". Weve got toys, porn, open minds. However, secretly, im quite a bit kinkier than he is . Im certain of it ( or hes just pro at hidig his kink. Which sucks lol) Hes not nearly as open minded as myself.

I want to express to him my fantasies for being dominated-whipped,tied, choked,bit etc. , and rape like RP. But, im not sure what..er how to approach it. I know he hates being tied. He hasnt ever expressed opinions on anything else besides that.
Any guys have advice, ideas, experiences? (women too !)

Hi BlasphemousGirl, I was just wondering how it was going? Have you managed to talk to your s.o. about your fantasies? And has acted on them?

I find it can be very frustrating in our position (I also love being dominated) where we know what we want from the guy but if we map it out and ask for everything, it kind of spoils it. I mean, asking nicely to be taken by force sort of spoils the rape role-play! Also, if the man isn't into really taking control and getting pleasure from dominating, it will be difficult for him to fake it.

Hope you're enjoying the kinky sex you crave!!!

gyfo · 04-15-11

Wow. Really interesting reading here. Territory I'm totally unfamiliar with. I think I would like a girl to dominate me for a change. Really kinky and hot!

Papi17 · 04-15-11

Back when my fiancee and I had started having sex she was very embarassed to tell me about her fantasies like these. She was afraid I'd look at her differently or something. It started with rougher and more dominating sex/choking and what not. We have never yet had the chance to fully play out a rape rp like the ones we have set up during talks about it but we do mini rape rp scenarios and I enjoy them completely. When we do these rp the sex is mind-blowing. Nothing better than being totally worn out and dripping sweat after hours of crazy dominating sex. So I would say just be open and try him. It worked on me. I found out that I am just as much if not more turned on by said adventurous sex.