Eating Pussy For The First Time

So starting with the preface that different women are different in this way, I'll share my experiences with my wife.

I never was that into cunnilingus before her, more foreplay with manual stimulation. My wife has been different than other girls I've been with because her parts are more sensitive and giving her an oral orgasm has been such a highlight of most sessions. But I wasn't good at it when we first met, and I've had to improve.

Part of the benefit you get when it's first time is that the idea of cunnilingus being done is enough of a turn-on that it can make up for lack of skill. If you get into a long-term commitment bear in mind that this may wear off, and you will need to become better to have it be an enjoyable experience the way it is now.

My wife being sensitive, it was important to be able to stimulate her just right - too much pressure would overstimulate her and she'd have to make me stop, and not finding the right spot or being too gentle would mean she didn't feel anything.

The most pleasure without overstimulating seems to come from stroking the hood over the clit. It's also good to rub the mound above.

One neat trick that I learned with my wife was that stroking between the labia above the vagina and below the clit would actually result in her telling me that she couldn't feel anything. But that didn't mean that it wasn't doing anything. At the same time I learned this I was having difficulty with her saying I was licking her clit too hard. Let me get back to that after some more background.

For whatever reason, oral for us works best in the 69 position. Whether it's the position or what I'm good at, I don't seem to get my lips and tongue to feel as good on her parts if I'm right side up, if you understand what I'm getting at.

So back to what I was saying, what I learned is that the stroking I can do with my upper lip on the area between her vagina and clit actually acts to bring her down from the overstimulation that can happen from my tongue on her clit. By doing both actions together, I found that I could stimulate her more on the clit while desensitizing with my upper lip. This really helped bring her to orgasm more consistently.

I've read guides that talk about finger insertion,, and for her it's always been either a distraction or too much.

And also after we had been together several years, we were talking about things.. When we had first been dating, we'd do oral till she orgasmed and then we'd have intercourse during which she'd seem to orgasm a few more times. It turned out that she wasn't' always orgasming but she was doing that act for me. But the oral orgasms were always real. I've always liked that because her parts really visibly twitch and have noticable contractions, and she gets real wet to the point you can see the juices flowing.

It's good y'all talked about it. Sounds like you got her figured out as far as cunnilingus goes.

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I couldn't help a slight chuckle to myself, figuring out my wife is one of those things that requires constant effort! Just when I think I have her figured out she changes, every time. At least sometimes it's for the better.

For about a year she'd developed a pattern where we'd have sex once a week with some weeks none and one time per month was really good. The pattern became for her horny - yeast - crabby - period, repeat. Then she made an anxiety med change and we had a 2 month dry spell, she'd have sex for my sake but it wasn't the connection experience I was after. Then all of a sudden we were having good sex 3 times a week.

I gave up on trying to understand.

I like to save something special for the moment she orgasms. Don't go all out right away. When you know she is about to explode, bring out your big finish to rock her right through into (hopefully) multiple orgasms. Just when she thought it couldn't get any better... Boooooom!

Of course, this only works once you really know what she likes. Don't want to start doing something she doesn't enjoy, ruining everyone's good time.

Just continue what you are doing while trying out the advice you like from the folks in this thread.

You can breathe through your nose by adjusting the angle of your head while you're going down there.

Start slow and build up excitement. Go with her pace.

If she is enjoying it, then keep going for as long as you can. It's really an endurance test when you eat pussy. When I do it, stuff will go down my throat, makes it hard to breath, I start to sweat like crazy and my jaw turns numb. But I see it as a challenge to see how long I can endure, since I love doing it so much. Sometimes my jaw will be sore for a couple of days, and I'll have to take Advil or something later and shake it off.

rareredrose,I love it when a woman wants me to do it the way you is saying the way it's sexy to you.I also love seeing a woman go down on me a couple times after I have had it in her thrusting a few times and then pull out.

I find that you need to move around different movements and work them up to where they can take more direct stimulation to the clit it works out well. When you find a spot where she pushed into you keep going on that spot don't change anything and when she comes don't stop too soon keep going until she pushes you away. It sometimes takes some time to get all the her all the way though orgasm. My wife will cry out a little if I hit the clit right on while she is in orgasm it's the best. After a good one she is really happy for a week.

learn to play blues harmonica.....the lip and tongue gymnastics and breathing control lend themselves well to the art of eating pussy...

no eternal reward will forgive us now for wasting the dawn...

This is what I like for myself and when I used to eat out other chicks they loved it too. I used to make them girls wild hehe!

Firstly, what i don't like is when he is too gentle at eating out. The labia and lips barely have any feeling to it, and it feels more annoying than anything if he doesn't hit the right spots, and if he is too gentle. Also, there are so many dudes that suck at fingering. They have scratchy long finger nails and just jab their uncomfortable fingers with nails in there much too fast on a really weird angle (like they dont know where the g spot is). Another thing they do is they don't know just how sensitive the clit is, and it's like they try to massacre it LoL.

I start her out laying or sitting on her side, so her thighs are pressing against her vagina making her clitoris throb. I pay attention to the nerve endings in her upper thighs and her behind, I caress those thighs, and then I begin to massage them in the front, and then move around to the back of her thighs and her butt.
I do it from behind.
I slowly tease her by hand massaging and nearing closer to where her anus and pussy is. And then when she is really moaning, I gently spank her repeatedly, patting her butt and thighs, and then i cup my hand over the space where her pussy is and gently spank it that way, but really fast so it creates vibrations. It creates an intense ripple effect that stimulates the anus, clitoris and all over the vagina.
That warms her up nicely, then i start to finger her pussy from behind, and begin eating out her pussy from behind. Fuck I enjoy that more than anything. I love my face buried into her ass and thighs, trying to get right in there to her pussy. And since I also like eating out asses, that gives me easy access to both. Having her laying on her stomach is also good because her clit rubs against the bed.

When I finally get to eating her out from the front, I never really had a problem with getting tired. I find taking breaths against the pussy actually creates a very pleasant sensation. Sometimes breaths feel hot sometimes they feel cool against the wetness. I like to burry my face right in, and tongue fuck her hole, suck on her clit, create vibrations with my tongue and all that jazz. I would massage her clit gently with my fingers when i was tongue fucking her.
Back in the day I would usually have some alcohol to quench my thirst from the pasties, and would feed her some of it in a kiss so she could taste her pussy and some booze, and then go back to making her orgasm. I made sure to look in her eyes during given the chance. Or appear really into it, which wasn't that much of a problem.