Anal!?!?!

whats up every one, i am new here...

Quick stats

Cajun male
27 y/o
6'1
603 pounds (no typo - imma big mother fucker)

Any way chaeck this out. My wife was one of those reserved chicks...never had sex before we were married, and when she did masterbate she was against penitration...she was always scared of it, she never saw oral as a thing she would give or receive.

Now that we are married she understands that i am a fucking FA-REAK!
And i love it all. so i went down on her a few times (my wife is a small girl about 150 pounds - latina too fucking hawt) so to return the favor she went down on me...LOVED IT! freaking great she even swallowed...we tease each other quite a bit and flirt back and forth but she absolutely HATES the idea of anal...says it makes her feel gross....but i really want this. But i dont EVER want her to fee like she HAS TO or i wont love her as much, you know what i mean? I guess i want her to want it too.

So we bought these condoms that numb the anus so the pain wouldnt really be a problem. She took a shit then a shower then teased me with a bj while i worked my fingers and tung to get her as horny as possible, then i put a condom on my finger....while she sucked away my fingers fucked away...i had 2 in the vagina andthe one with the condom deep in her ass...the vagina was taking her mind off of the ass. As soon as she was about to cream herself i pulled the fingers out layed on my back and allowed her to squat over me to insert penis into anus....we got the tip of the head in and it was hurting her...i even tried to thrust and she jumped off....she has warmed up to the idea...but i can not get her to try it again.... I WANT TO CUM IN AN ASS.....

when we have sex i oil her ass up and massage her pussy and every now and then try to slip a finger in the anus but she stops and slaps my hand away....

Any advice here guys and gals? I want her to want this... i knw some chicks crave it...so why is mine so afraid of it? She said she wouldnt mind it but she is just afraid of it...mostly because it was just so taboo growing up.

forgive my jacked up spelling....this keyboard isnt the best.

She doesn't want to do it, she's made that clear, yet you're still pushing for it. STOP IT! If/when she changes her mind, she'll let you know.

nah, not buying that one :-) sorry... there is a way, i know she really would not mind it once we do it but she is just scared...i guess my question is are there things we can do to mae her more comfortable with the idea...things we can do to get rid of the fear?

The only thing that's gonna' stop her fear is for you to stop hassling her out and trying to force the issue.....jeeesus, if I were her, I'd have fears about it too....
What part of "I DON'T WANT TO" don't you understand?

If you just can't go through your life without "cumming in someone's ass.....
Go find a gay guy or a hooker......

Would not mind it? I feel so lucky to have a man who doesn't try to pressure me into doing things I don't want to do. I'll try anything once, if I don't like it there's no way he'd bully me or try persuade me to do it again.


When it came to us trying anal, I said I would if he would. He wanted to put his 8" cock in my ass, I wanted him to know how it'd feel for me, so he agreed to let me use my vibe on him. Are you willing to do the same?

I'm with CruelTease and Wheels up there. If you can't accept that she doesn't want to do it then there is a bigger issue at hand.

I, like CT am very lucky to have a husband who loves and adores me enough that once I do something that I don't necessarily enjoy, he wont push me to do it again. It happens on MY OWN TIME.

That's something you need to learn to do with your girl. Respect her and her sexual boundaries. Rather then try and manipulate her into doing it, why not ask her if there is anything that you can do to make it more comfortable for her to try again.

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My wife was reluctant to try but once on my birthday she said to go ahead. I only went in about 2 inches and she let me cum. She hasnt let me do it since but she likes my finger so I will have to settle for that.

ug effin bitches....look guys I DONT FUCKING HASSLE HER!...as a matter of fact i have only been pushing the subject a week or two....im just wondering if there is anything i can do as a man to help her feel at ease

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Can you please enlighten me on who you were referring to when you said "ug effin bitches..."

I'd really like to know.

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who ever the fuck fit the category...you if you feel the shoe fits....

look i see members come on here post a pick of their tits and cock then never post again....im here with a legit question and honetly looking for some help in the area and i get flamed on...WTF there was no need for that...if you dont have something constructive to add then please STFU....for the people who repied with good intentions i really do appreciate your input...but the D-bags ruined it for the most part...

Check it out Mitt, your little interwebz infraction dont really mean a whole lot...with no disrespect intended towards you at all, i really dont feel like i got the best welcome when i joined a new forum....Im not a prick but when people tell me to fuck a dudes ass or quit trying to ass rape my wife....that seems more disrespectful then me saying FUCK YOU to some one...yet you let their posts go un edited..

with your attitude, you should be glad you're getting any at all to be honest.

Go read the posts again. No one mentioned rape or suggested you have sex with a man.

You're the only one who has been disrespectful in this thread. You've been disrespectful to the members here who gave their honest opinions (it is a public forum, and getting an opinion on what you should do is what you asked for) and disrespectful to your wife as well:



She's afraid because it makes her feel dirty and you've hurt her by doing it incorrectly before, and then tried to force her into it when she's made it clear she doesn't want to. You broke her trust and desire to try anal.

fuck it...later bitches!

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