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Originally Posted by nyxx warm up to it, take it slow, ease in to it, be relaxed, if you tense up... theres no chance |
IMO this is the simplest answer... but I want to add
LUBE LUBE and MORE LUBE..
at first it will be an weird feeling.. intense sensations (my first time I actually said "Ouch!" out of confusion lol there was no pain but the intensity of the sensations was new & kinda scary

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with me if it ever gets to the point of actual pain (be it me moved too fast or a wrong angle.. whatever..) anal is over for me for the night because I can't get relaxed again'
it gets easier with time.. I used to do it several times a week and then stopped for 2 years.. so it's back to like I've never done it before but it's easier every time we do it