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Originally Posted by haircop  OK, I have never "posted" to this or ANY other board, so here goes. I'm trying to figure out why I'm so fucked up that I have this secret fantasy to watch my wife fuck another man, most likely in a threesome type situation. Where does this stem from? I have been very happily married to her for 20 years with an awesome sex life, but this has just recently risen to the surface. Thankfully, my wife is very cool and didn't freak out on me when we were talking recently about our sex life and I brought it up. She said that she might be open to it (if it really meant that much to me) but it would need to be SUPER thought out, etc. She mostly says "that sounds like a fantasy that will probably just never come true" based on possible jealousy issues, drama, etc. I am not bi-sexual, I have NO interest in touching another dude, but I want to see the pleasure on my wife's face while getting it on with another man while I am with her....what the fuck is wrong with me? It is my "go-to" fantasy when I am masturbating on my own, especially when I want to finish quickly....HELP!! And please do not reply to this post with things like "well where do you live, I will come help you, HAHA!"...I am serious. |
Bud, you are far from alone. I went through the same torture as you. The thoughts of watching my wife with someone else made me insane! I doubted my own sanity for the longest time because I thought the same thing. " What the fuck is wrong with me?! Where is this coming from? There must be something wrong with me!!"
I talked to my wife about it though cause finally I thought " Hey, it's not that uncommon. I know it's ME thinking this, but, if I discussed this with her, SHE would be getting pleasure too! "
So, one night, after a few BOTTLES of wine, I brought it up. I brought it up by asking if she thought of other men. If the want was ever there to take someone to her will, at a party, or in public. Of course, fearing the worse and a " trap " ( I suppose ) She said no. She never has those thoughts.
I dropped it. Like a bad habit. I thought that I should play it safe and leave well enough alone. I dont like to be pushy. Well, I dont like to be pushy about trying new things. Under normal cercumstances she WANTS me to be pushy, demanding pretty much in bed, but for this the smart thing to do was to back right off and so I did. Until....
One night, about two weeks later over a lot of Tequila and 7-up the conversation was brought up again. THIS time though it wasn't me! I played it off as though I forgot I even asked, but, my heart rate went through the roof and the fact that it was HER mentioning it had my zipper exploding on my jeans!
She decided after much thought AND eventually masturbating to the thought of it herself that maybe she WOULD like to do it! SOON! I was in heaven! Of course over the next little while we discussed it ( soberly ) to death. There was of course the " recruiting " part of it as well. Her opening up and saying who she wanted. Me deciding if I could go through it with that person.... typical I suppose. We finally decided on someone we both knew. Someone we thought would be down with it. She wanted to start in the room alone with him for a minute though before I came in because she was worried about being uncomfortable right away with me standing there. I would stand in the hall ( in our home ) till she called me in...
Long story short. On a whim, after we " set him up " ( having him over for [ MANY ] drinks for company one night ) we went to the kitchen for more drinks and snacks, leaving him in the livingroom. Suddenly she came over and said quietly into my ear that she couldnt stop staring at his crotch. That she was more then ready to get his cock in her and she wanted to blow him baddly. She appologized for saying it and I kissed her to stop her from talking. I dont think I have ever kissed her so passionately.
I told her to do what she wanted. I left the kitchen and went to the washroom which was hidden from the livingroom by a wall and made sure to semi-slam the door so they could both hear it. I stood in there for a moment and didnt hear any talking so i turned off the light and very quietly opened the door and snuck to the corner of the livingroom. I peered around the corner and saw her sitting on his lap straddling him. They were talking quietly to eachother. Suddenly without either of them even noticing me standing there she got off of his lap and stood, removing his pants and underwear! I started shaking insanely! I couldnt believe what i was seeing!
When she got on her knees in front of him and took him in her mouth I thought my knees were gunna cave! They moaned SO loudly that I could barely control myself.....
The point is, I would have never had the chance to experience it if I hadn't mentioned it to her. In the end he thought he was just gunna get laid by her when he wanted and made several attempts to get in touch with her on the sly for a long time after our threesome ( you didn't think I didn't join in the fun did you ) and he is no longer our friend. CHOOSE wisely. I suggest someone neither of you know. And plan it! No one but you and her will know about the " set up " ( unless you broadcast it on a sex site ) except the 2 of you.
She has since shyed away from doing it again. I on the other hand am MORE then prepared to participate or even just watch it happen again. We both had fun that night, she was just scared off at his persistance afterwards. Maybe one day she'll cum around again. I can assure you though that completing the task once only makes you hungry for more. Be sure that she is comfortable with it and pick the best possible guy you can BOTH want to see her with.
CHEERS!
~ Dave ~
