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I need some advice. I was in the hot tub with my wife and her super hot friend Sheila the other night and my wife goes in to get some wine. Sheila moves to the other side of the hot tub and notices one of the jets. She pauses in front of it and i realize that she is pleasuring herself. I said go ahead, my wife loves those too. She proceeds to moan in pleasure so i get up behind her and rub her nipples. We didnt have sex but i almost came at the thought of it. She finished just in time for my wife to come back outside and we never spoke of it again. I know sheila wants to do me and she thinks my wife is hot, how do i tell my wife i want a threesome?

well, don't tell her that story.

first off, do you even think your wife would entertain the idea of a threesome?

What the hell were you doing playing around with your wife's friend? Do you already have an open marriage or something?

First you need to tell her about your encounter in the hottub..honesty is the root of a good marriage. Once she recovers from that, then you can broach the subject with her. Like SWL said, do you know that your wife would even want a threesome?

Oh, and welcome to

Sheila and your wife must be ok with open relationships/marriages? And we know you are.. I think we need more info here.

first step would be talking about it, and no, don't just say 'i want to 3some'. get into a conversation about trying new things and then eventually in mention it and see how she reacts. good luck

make sure ur wifes ok with a threesome first, you might have to do a mfm first to get her comfortable with the idea if she isnt already, and for no reason what so ever mention her friend untill it is time to decide who to do it with if ur wife agrees to do it.

Guess I'm strange, I don't want to fuck any other woman than my wife. I wouldn't care if she had her fun with the jet, but as for other activities, no thanks.

To quote Frasier: "Mercy! What is a boy to do?"

But yes, we need some more info here. The fact that you were all in the hot tub together could indicate that your wife is open to suggestions. Your behavior was a bit "sneaky" though. How do you think your wife would have reacted if she saw you playing with her friend's nipples? (I am actually asking, not pointing fingers here)

oh no, no no.

that was meant as sarcasm, more of a...."well if you REALLY want her to say yes..."

either way i don't think he should bring it up anyway. i think the OP mostly just wants to fuck this woman and justify it by having his wife there

I'm little like backcheck. I wouldn't wnat sex with anyone but my wife. I feel temptation all the time. I believe that any entanglement even if your wife is "open" to it will lead to disaster. BTW I also believe that you are already on the road. Ladies please correct me if I'm wrong but sooner or later your wife and her friend will talk about what happened. Woman seem to talk about everything.

i don't think so. although it all depends on the woman but if she's the type that would like take it further with him, she'll keep it a secret from the wife.

I'm starting to feel sorry for the wife in this story. It would suck to have a friend who wants to fuck your SO.

i wouldnt care if my friends wanted to fuck my boyfriend/husband, just as long as he doesn't want to fuck them too.

Yes, she seems to be just as "sneaky" as the OP.

Good luck with that. I don't believe there are many guys out there like Backcheck. I may not fool around with my wifes friends but it doesn't mean I don't want too. We men are bad bad people. If you find one you can trust hang on to him. And watch out for your friends anyway.