Big boy(S)

I just got myself a new lover, we have not done it yet. We have been snogging a lot, and we have been touching each other. Why not!?
He is big.. about 8 inches solid excluding the sack. I can hardly wait to get him inside me or deepthroating him.. I am somewhat scared of his pure size.
Can anyone give me any tips? Please

Errr.....take it slow and lots of lube??

And welcome to SF too'.....

First off, read this thread, it talks about the same concerns --> Girlfriend too small?

You can also use Google to get lots of great information presented by the medical community on this topic.


Secondly, I kind of have to disagree with HotWheels unless he is talking about a woman's natural lubrication. It is far better to have lots of foreplay and at least one orgasm for you to prepare your vagina for penetration by a large penis than to just apply artifical lubrication and attempt to shove it in there.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

I just learned a new word from your profile: irrumatio.

The first time you take him in, have him enter you slowly like he's exploring, not slam in like, well, like he probably wants to. Have him settle in and maybe not even thrust. Find your limits of what's comfortable with him in you and what's too much. The big thrusting like porn can come later when you know more about how he fits in you.

And while he's gradually sliding in, be doing stuff--kissing or caressing or whatever. Keep your arousal going. Don't just get all warmed up and ready and wet and then stop when it's time to do it. Taking him in isn't a shift like that. I think that's why some girls get dry just at the moment when they really need to stay wet.

Those are my tips. I hope they help!

I almost as long, about 7.5", but probably thicker (6.5"). He will know what to do, which is not full penetration to start, but to build up to the full 8". That is, I thrust shallow at first, and feel my wife's response until she can take all of me. And almost all women can.

You probably won't need extra lube unless he's as thick as me. But what you do need is arousal, so the vagina is fully enlarged and ready.

Relax, because he's been this size all his life and he knows exactly what to do. Relax, because you may well enjoy the experience of your lifetime. I won't give away any secrets, but this may be very, very special.

Thanx guys, I got a lot of helpful tips.. slow `n`easy is not always a bad thing I guess )

Gentle and a little at a time. Don't hurry or it will hurt, especially if he's thick.

My boyfriend and I snuggled a lot in the beginning, too. I got used to handling him in a playful way so when we started working him in it wasn't so scary and intimidating.