tips for having rough sex...

rbenoit · 08-29-10

i was hanging out with this girl the other day...shes a good friend of mine..and she tells me she wants me to have sex with her....but then she says that she likes it rough,....i dont normally do rough sex, so i was hoping you guys or girls would have some tips on what i could do to please her.

Thanks

igor · 08-29-10

I suggest you get her definition of rough sex.

Barbwire · 08-29-10

Yeah, I agree. She's the one that needs to tell you exactly what she wants. "Rough" can mean any number of things. Best to make sure you are both on the same page before the festivities begin.

pool_shark · 08-29-10

I agree with the other posters. Her definition of rough could be light hair pulling or being tied up and taken.

Find out before you go too far or not far enough.

HardRocker · 08-29-10

The other piece of advice I always see is to have a safe word that means Absolutely Stop Now! Some word that would never naturally enter the situation, like Cheesecake or something equally ridiculous.