Hello, this is my first post. I have a problem. I sometimes have trouble controlling my erection when I'm around girls. Its not like I have a boner every time I hang out with a female, but sometimes when I'm hanging out with a girl I like I tend to get a hard on. I haven't been with a girl in a few years (meaning any kind of sexual relations), so I'm thinking maybe when I finally do get into a relationship, and spend time with a girl then I'll be more comfortable and my erection will be more easily controlled. In the meantime, is there anything I can do now that could help me with this problem?
A few examples are: one of my best friends is a female, an attractive one whom I'd love to fuck, but probably never will (and I'm fine with that). She is a very physical person and likes to touch in playing manor, or cuddle on the couch with no intentions of sleeping with me, and sometimes I just can't control my penis and I do get an erection making me very uncomfortable because I have to be in an awkward position and try very hard for her not to find out.
Sometimes when I'm in a car ride, I'll get comfortable and just the rhythm of the road will get me aroused.
Also, I have been on a few dates recently (with no sex received), but I'm always thinking there is the possibility that I may get laid later that night and that gets me very aroused and I end up spending the whole night trying to hide my boner.
I know some of you guys will say just don't think about it, and I've tried doing that, but the way my mind works, it's always dashing from one thought to another and it's hard not to occasionally think about it.
So, that's my problem. Hope you guys can help me out
You're right, being sexless for a long time will make it worse, especially if you are at the age of tour maximum sex drive. Riding in the car not only gives your mind time to idle, but the vibrations are no doubt stimulating your prostate, which will certainly cause arousal.
