Harder?

Ok I know this sounds like a silly question, but it came through my mind after something my ex said.

During sex, when she was all excited and getting close, she said "Slower, Harder" several times.
Now I feel silly but I have no idea how to go "slower and harder". I mean, if I go slow, it's usually less rough... so whats the deal?

You could always try going a bit slower while pushing a little firmer at the same time......it's not all about speed I guess
Try asking her, or letting her on top so you can see how she moves when she's getting close......


welcome to SF Danny

Yeah ive heard this before too. "No slow down a little. But go harder"

Its not that easy but i just push in harder. U can make the push kinda fast and hard but pull out slow and pause just a fraction of a second. She never complained about that so it must be what she has in mind lol

newguy85- yeah i think that's what she meant
harder is the force in which you enter and the slow is the speed between each thrust, not the thrust itself.