Hello Icy... Boji here.
Boji once had a BBBJ from a beautiful woman who started by cradling Boji's soft cock on her palm, run her finger up and down the shaft, all the while, she purred, said sweet things and pretended that Boji's cock was what she has been craving. When Boji's cock began to stiffen she began to lick the shaft and the tip with up and down and circling motion while her other hand grabbed Boji's balls and gently squeezed them. When Boji's cock is at full attention, she alternated from sucking and licking Boji's cock to sucking and licking Boji's balls.
What's best about this BBBJ was sometimes when Boji's cock was in her mouth she would make a muted noise that sounded like "Brrrr BRrrrr Brrrr ...". The vibration her tongue made on Boji's cock was terrific! That was the trick that made it special.
So Icy, try making your man excited first by letting him feel like you are hot for his cock. Say nice things about it. Caress it as if you were caressing a precious object. Don't go too fast by immediately putting in your mouth or jerking it but slowly tease it until he begs for more. Practice that purring noise (Brrrr ... Brrrr) with your finger first and then use the trick on him.
Anyway, please tell Boji how it goes OK?