Guys, why do you feel the need to hide jerking off?

Dragon_Fire · 05-11-10

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Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover

Sometimes I masturbate while in bed with my husband because I can't get to sleep for whatever reason. I find having a quick orgasm makes me sleep like a log, so I jill off to hasten sleep.

Why don't I just wake up my husband and initiate sex with him? Because frankly, I don't have the energy to go through a round of sex; I just want to get off and sleep.

It's not a reflection of how desirable my husband is me, it's more of quick and simple sleep aid.

I do this too. My current boyfriend doesn't mind but my ex used to get jealous because I dared to have sex without him. Sometimes, I just need to think of myself and only myself.

QWE · 05-13-10

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Originally Posted by Dragon_Fire

my ex used to get jealous because I dared to have sex without him.

men manage to be jealous in any imaginable situations

Ming102 · 05-16-10

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Originally Posted by Mittimer

So the title of this thread is kind of a broad statement. Not all of you hide it, so it's not me pointing fingers.

I'm currently having an issue with my fiancee. I've woken up...countless times with him jacking off...right next to me. Lol It drives me bonkers. I mean, I'm here, I'm naked, why not fuck me?

I'm not insecure, and I don't care that he's doing it, hell, I like watching him do it sometimes, but when I wake up, realize it and just go back to sleep then ask him about it later, he'll say he didn't do it.

O....k....wtf?

So my question is..

Why would a male feel the need to hide the fact that he's jacking off to his SO?

I'm just curious so if you guys could fill me in, that would be fantastic.

Thanks a bunch!

The problem is that you 'might' think badly of him. Next time you catch him, don't let him know you're awake until you are sure and then tell him that you love to see him masturbate and it turns you on. That'd work for me. Then it's only a few steps to you stroking his balls while he wanks or climbing on top of him.

leglover · 05-25-10

Tell him you want to watch him jerk off, then play with yourself and start talking dirty. He will love that so much he will just start asking you to join him, and it will always end up with you both having sex. Or you could just jump on him while he's doing it and tell him he's not having fun without you. I know I would love that.

wilber · 05-25-10

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Originally Posted by Mittimer

So the title of this thread is kind of a broad statement. Not all of you hide it, so it's not me pointing fingers.

I'm currently having an issue with my fiancee. I've woken up...countless times with him jacking off...right next to me. Lol It drives me bonkers. I mean, I'm here, I'm naked, why not fuck me?

I'm not insecure, and I don't care that he's doing it, hell, I like watching him do it sometimes, but when I wake up, realize it and just go back to sleep then ask him about it later, he'll say he didn't do it.

O....k....wtf?

So my question is..

Why would a male feel the need to hide the fact that he's jacking off to his SO?

I'm just curious so if you guys could fill me in, that would be fantastic.

Thanks a bunch!

Maybe he is just being courteous. There are times I will crank one out because it is early and I can't sleep but I know she will not wake up on her own for hours and I am not going to interrupt her. My honest suggestion would be you grab the bull by the horns and climb on and go for a ride. If he questions it just say, " I'm not letting that go to waste". If I was him and found myself under you under those circumstances I would probably get caught a little more often.

When life gives you lemons...........................................

HardRocker · 05-25-10

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Originally Posted by wilber

If he questions it just say, " I'm not letting that go to waste...

A boner is a terrible thing to waste!

LS69 · 05-26-10

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Originally Posted by HardRocker

A boner is a terrible thing to waste!

i totally agree

Mittimer · 05-26-10

Get caught a little more often?

Thanks for this guys. <3

bigpappi · 05-31-10

I dont hide it, sometimes my wife will do it for me, she's actually gotten quite good at it with the right amount of grip,speed,lube. It's fantastic. Most of the time it will be if I am having trouble sleeping. Usually she will just give me a bj but sometimes,which is fine with me, she will lube my cock up and get me off,it feels so so good.

undeadarsenal · 06-15-10

only ideas i have are 1. he is worried what you might think...and 2. sometimes despite how good the sex is its just a different feeling to have and again kinda worried what you might think...

not that it would be looked down on but that it might make you feel bad that what you have in bed isn't 'good enough'...

Trond · 07-14-10

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Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover

Sometimes I masturbate while in bed with my husband because I can't get to sleep for whatever reason. I find having a quick orgasm makes me sleep like a log, so I jill off to hasten sleep.

It's not a reflection of how desirable my husband is me, it's more of quick and simple sleep aid.

This is true for me too! Occasionally, particularly if I am having trouble sleeping because I'm stressed about something, my only way of calming down is thinking about sex (it takes my mind off other things). But now I can't sleep because I'm thinking dirty stuff, so I pleasure myself a little bit without waking my wife. She is usually not interested anyway, but it helps me fall asleep.

Lucky · 07-18-10

I am new to the forum and will do an intro but to answer this question, I think it stems back to our mothers or whoever raised you telling us that masterbation is bad. I think most of us guys are brainwashed this enough that the guilt never leaves us. Even my own father said that if I did it enough, i would not be able to have good ejaculations when i am older. Well, now I am older and that has proved out not to be true.

rob20 · 07-28-10

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Originally Posted by Mittimer

So the title of this thread is kind of a broad statement. Not all of you hide it, so it's not me pointing fingers.

I'm currently having an issue with my fiancee. I've woken up...countless times with him jacking off...right next to me. Lol It drives me bonkers. I mean, I'm here, I'm naked, why not fuck me?

I'm not insecure, and I don't care that he's doing it, hell, I like watching him do it sometimes, but when I wake up, realize it and just go back to sleep then ask him about it later, he'll say he didn't do it.

O....k....wtf?

So my question is..

Why would a male feel the need to hide the fact that he's jacking off to his SO?

I'm just curious so if you guys could fill me in, that would be fantastic.

Thanks a bunch!

ok babe first of all if thats you in the pic your pretty hot.

second every guy has fantasies of fucking hot chicks and the reason he lies and ses he wasnt wanking is because he doesnt want you to know hes thinking about fucking other women.

basically it doesnt matter if he wanks over other girls he obviously loves you....

all guys have a certain sexuality i.e younger girls, older, chinese, black, hairy, shaven blah blah ect... it doesnt mean he ist really into you thats just men for you

HardRocker · 07-28-10

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Originally Posted by rob20

ok babe first of all if thats you in the pic your pretty hot.

second every guy has fantasies of fucking hot chicks and the reason he lies and ses he wasnt wanking is because he doesnt want you to know hes thinking about fucking other women.

basically it doesnt matter if he wanks over other girls he obviously loves you....

all guys have a certain sexuality i.e younger girls, older, chinese, black, hairy, shaven blah blah ect... it doesnt mean he ist really into you thats just men for you

That meshes with a lot of the ideas in this thread. I think that's spot on. I'd like to qualify that with another male characteristic; we are more like cows in that we just have an urge to be milked regularly. And sometimes that need doesn't coincide with the emotional and physical energy for intimacy. It's just the only way we can relax, much like the women in this thread have mentioned. Plus, we get to fuck an empty nameless responsibility-free supermodel.

rob20 · 07-28-10

having a wank a day is like taking a drink. i have one most nights to help me sleep

Guys, why do you feel the need to hide jerking off?

Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover Sometimes I masturbate while in bed with my husband because I can't get to sleep for whatever reason. I find having a quick orgasm makes me sleep like a log,