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Originally Posted by Lucky  I will stand by my advise. You might be able to handle affairs , but she does not sound like she would. She sounds mixed up and is asking for advise from us as to the right way to handle it. I find that affairs, in the long run only break up marriages. They may be exciting at the time, but the guilt will last forever. |
Only a tiny proportion of affairs lead to divorce. Some would feel guilty, some won't, I didn't and I don't.
In any case SHE'S NOT IMPLYING AN AFFAIR! I read it as making a choice between this other guy, her husband, and broaching the subject with the other guy.
Some marriages are fixable, some can be fixed through counselling, some are beyond repair and all the counselling in the world won't help. It depends on where the OP thinks her marriage is at. My sister, who I quoted before, can't do counselling because her husband isn't interested. So it's misery or divorce.
Which would you pick?