Thanks guys for your comments. First off I am 38 and I have been married for 19 years. I have one son who is 19 and is away at college. I will say for those 19 years I did love my husband and we have had some good times. Something has fallen from our marriage, I can't come up with what it is. We do not do anything together anymore and love making it seems is few and far between. You are right when you say I should at least tell my husband about the gentlemen I have met. But, right now I do not know if he (my gentleman friend) feels the same way about me. Each time I am with him I get this feeling all over me. Should I tell my gentleman friend how I feel first. before I confront my husband?