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Originally Posted by Alisa  Hi everyone: My name is Alisa and I have just joined today. Have not viewed much of the site yet, but wanted to introduce myself. I am here for help with a problem I have. You see, I am a married woman but have met a man I really like. Yes, I like my husband, but for a few years now I have been falling out of love with him. The man a met does not know how I feel about him. I really would like to go ALL THE WAY and I mean all the way. If this is not the section for advice please advise me which section I may go to receive help. Should I tell this man how I feel or should I just let nature take it's course. (Sorry for my rambaling on.) |
Hello Alisa, make sure you are prepared for all of the things that go along with having and affair (lying, scheming, guilt, fear, chance of disease...).
You have not mentioned how old you are, how long you have been married, whether you have kids or not. The guy my first with left me for, did not want her once she was a free woman. She ended up single for many years before she met the guy she is with.
All I am trying to say is think long and hard before you take a risk like cheating! You may find it would take less energy and the pay off might be greater if you work on the relationship you have.