Pssh you don't have to be a nice guy/unconfident/ugly guy to be a virgin. Case and point, me . I'm so intelligent and good looking that I don't think any girl is worthy of my attention, thus if a girl really wants to fuck me she has to work for it, which with today's gender roles most girls don't have the initiative to do. So I get blowjobs now and then when I feel like it and rub one out daily to keep me sane. I'm an interesting psychological profile though, the average virgin wants to have sex but can't because of their own inadequacies. You just have to think you're the shit and take what you want and you'll have it my friend, regardless of if you are really worthy of it or not. Trade in your social anxiety for narcissism, they are surprisingly similar, you just have to tweek your psyche a bit.