im new on here or at least returning after a long absence and had a question
recently i found out my wife of 12 yrs cheated on me for the first 10 yrs with several men both friends and strangers when i found this out i was quiet shocked and pissed i am still with her but am not exactly sure what i wanna do stay or leave we have 2 daughters and i still love her so i wanna stay but i am not sure i can trust her but when i think bout the stuff she told me she did it turns me on somewhat and i think maybe we should just have an open marriage even though i have no desire for another women but it might be a turn on to let her have fun and tell me bout it what advice do all of you out there give me both male and female