I'm on my second marriage and we've been married for 22 years now. My wife said she doesn't like to touch herself and said she doesn't like me to masturbate. I do it anyway because we don't have sex very often, once every two years for the past 4 years. I think I have seen here twice playing with herself and I got excited thinking she was. We've played with toys. She doesn't like me wearing a ring. I tried it one night and she had me remove it. She is 64 and I am 65 but still love to have sex. Is it too late to get her to change? Are there any suggestions how I can get her to loosen up and enjoy sex. Her first marriage ended with her husband cheating on her and that may have something to do with our current situation. We love each other and I want us to have some fun while we still can.