I am actually up for this soon. No set date, but it's gonna happen. I really don't see what all the fuss is about for those who are against it. To each their own I guess.
Nothing makes my husband hotter honestly, it's his #1 all time fantasy, so far. I would not consider anything that we both weren't comfortable with and it makes for some hot sexy time to discuss, in detail, what he'd like to see and why he'd like to see it.
Our relationship is strong and solid (like his -

so there are no worries there. My only concern is that he'd like to videy it and I am not into seeing myself on film (he's got oodles of vids of me/us). Something tells me I might be otherwise distracted . . .
I think the whole thing can be very hot, satisfying and safe, if you do it right. Know your ground rules.