Lazy Fingers

I can understand why you wouldn't want to hang onto someone that doesn't satisfy you mentally, but the physically part I don't get. Have you no interest in working towards making things better sexually?

Seems to me your attitude is just making it easier for you to fail. *shrugs*

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

You can encourage and teach most people to be better at sex, but I can understand why you would also not bother. I have had some mind-blowingly fantastic lovers, and our times together live in my mind as if they were yesterday. I could never, ever teach someone close to me to be as relaxed and intuitive about great sex; never in a million years.

It would be truly beautiful to roll together compatibility and friendship with mind-blowing sex, but maybe that doesn't happen too often. But at least I reached good and sometimes very good sex, so that was something.

To be honest, you wouldn't have to tell me to do anything! I LOVE going down on a woman and using all the knowledge and talents I have to get her off. Not just once, but as many times and in different ways as possible. Making a woman cum is just awesome!

every man is diffrent,some know what to do but some dont.but the best thing to do is talk to one another and open up ur heart and tell him what u want and him too we tell u.that way u ve a good luv life and be happy.we learn every day of our life so no one is perfet.