I knew it was a bad idea when I did it but..

No need to excuse yourself, hon. You didn't know about our troll.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

Ah yes Troll... A vague term which includes anyone that doesn't instantly accepted whatever judgements (dressed up as advice) are dished out to them.

Just because I challenged some pretty hostile posts to the thread I started doesn't make me a troll.

Do you really not make the connection between the bitchey, condescending comments, deletion of posts, the horrible faux friendliness of many of the threads.... And the fact that this Forum is dying a death?

I've asked you before and I'll ask you again. If you think this place sucks so much, why do you stay?

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

Maybe because we're easy to bait... oops, I just confirmed her suspicions, we're piling on again.

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I stumbled onto this forum though a link to an old thread on google. It was pretty interesting stuff, but as soon as I hit the main forum all I saw was 4 or 5 people constantly kissing each others arse.

To be honest I'm pretty fucking dissapointed at the state of the place now and wish the site was what it was several years ago.

As for my own participation well...I posted an incident from my sex life and instead of a discussion I got judgemental dross dressed up as 'advice'.

What bothers me is the total lack of curiosity that some people on here have, I quite welcome the chance to talk to people with differing experiences and views.

I think people need to get over the need to have a hissy fit every time they encounter a view that runs contrary to their own, or when they feel that their dispensing of judgement should end the conversation.

Most of all I think people need to ask themselves why this group has more moderators than active members...

But, you didn't answer my question.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

CL, I know that feeling..of her not wanting to answer questions. She tends not to do that when she realizes she's been backed into a corner ^_^

Okay, Totty, just so everyone can see what kind of usless abuse and ass kissing we subjected you to, here is your first thread. One mod posted in it and he's no longer one of us three remaining mods. I posted in it, but at the time I was not a mod, and neither was CL.

http://www.sexualforums.com/23069-so-i-told-my-boyfriend.html

I just don't see it, so if I am that blind to our hostility, please point it out.

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I am locking this thread. There's nothing of use being added at this point.

If people want to further discuss their feelings about SF, they can start a new thread in the Feedback Forum.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover