@OP - First off, I'm not the religious type, so I'll shy away from any comments on an institution that tells you to suppress your bodily instincts. Ever notice that the "7 Deadly Sins" are ALL human nature? Just some food for thought...

Moving on.

HardRocker hit the nail on the head. You're already sexually active, honey, sorry to break it to you. Just because you haven't crossed the "Insert Tab A Into Slot B" threshold doesn't make a bit of difference. Oral sex is still sex - aside from pregnancy, it comes with the same risk factors, health wise.

@21852male - I'm going to keep this as snark free as I possibly can.

The fact that a reported team of sexologists saying women not having an orgasm as a sign of dysfunction is ludicrous. I'm assuming you're getting this tidbit of information "Most women Jill off with massagers,thru life,& thats why its the men that do the extramarital straying instead of women,besides ,statistically ,40% of women are dysfunctional ,& don t have orgasms with men thru conventional sex,I think it was stated in masters & johnsons" from either Human Sexual Response and Human Sexual Inadequacy, published in 1966 and 1970, texts that are 40 years old. The worlds of sexuality, knowledge and technology has come a LONG way in 40 years. I'm sure this would've been accepted as fact in 1970, but now? I'd beg to differ.

Not to mention, you ever think that it might *gasp* be the man to blame? That perhaps women's sexuality, physiology, and mental accuity is a lot more complex then a "wham, bam, thank you Ma'am?" That maybe, just maybe we might require more food for though then some grunting and panting in the backseat of a car. Or a lab, in the case of Masters and Johnson.

And yet WE'RE the dysfunctional ones.

Wow, did I ramble...I think I did.

oops.