32 years of marriage for me, it was all the time until kids came and that really slowed it down, then when she hit menopause it sped up again, but gradually started to dwindle to seldom but health problems are a factor. But we do snuggle and hold hands and such a lot. I am retired and would like it more but she still works and is always tired. Maybe when she retires in a few years it will pick up again.