how often should i expect or get oral?

I was just wondering how often women get oral vs men? I enjoy doing it for my guy but for me it seems like a rare occurance anymore and I didn't realize how much of a difference it makes until not getting it....so I figured I would just cut him off the same but after almost a week he will just ask for it..but I figure if he wanted to do it he would and if I ask him then it won't be good anyway? so what's the deal?

Ask him to do it. If he can ask you for it, you can ask him. Good luck!

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

After last night, I don't need to be asked.

Ask him. If he's like me it's a turn on to be asked. I do it a lot anyway, but I love it if she asks me to.

Men aren't mind readers any more than women are. If you want to be eaten out, ask for it or make it perfectly clear in another way, like shoving his head down and raising your hips off the bed when he's kissing your breasts. Works for me.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

I would expected at least as much as i would give it, sounds pretty fair if you ask me

I give my wife oral every time., She never does it to me. I guess I would say if you are not satisfied with the way things are to tell him.

*I've learned that pleasing everyone is impossible,*
*but pissing everyone off is a piece of cake.*

Expectations are irrelavent because, as CL said, mind reading is futile. Trying to manipulate him into doing it isn't the path to a happy healthy sex life either. I like the direct approach; either tell him what you want or just put it in his face. That bit of aggressiveness may unleash his sexual animal too.

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The highest form of oral sex is good communication! Tell the guy! Then wash it up, and spread it out! Hygiene is very important. There are also flavored gels that might encourage him to go down.

South American

I think you should just ask??

Hell ! I used to go down on my exwife atleast twice a week. But I truly enjoy licking the pink Taco!

I don't think anyone can "expect" oral. However if you want it, the best thing to do is ask.

That's exactly the thing.... oral is something you "GIVE".... if i have to ask or encourage it probably wont be as enjoyable as receiving from a willing proactive "giver".....

You forgot to mention that you were married for close to 45 years before you ever went down on your wife and that you haven't asked her to do it to you. Take your own advice, Igor.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

I give it as often as I can as I think women like it more than sex sometimes! Am I right ?