Jeeesus Johnny.....she's just trying to be honest mate....there's no need to take offence....
You asked the question, and invited input on your situation, then you seem to get upset because you didn't like the answers.
Honestly man.....what do want us to say?
You've made over 2000 posts....and are still a valued, long term member of this forum....surely you more than most should appreciate that we have only tried to offer constructive input into your situation.
Sometimes, we need to be brutally honest with our answers, and tell you what we really think....not just what we think you want to hear.
If your domestic situation really is that bad, then you know that there has to be changes....and there's plenty of parents out there who live apart and still care, and are there for, their kids.
This has obviously been nagging at you for some time now....so it's time to stop complaining and...... DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!

If you need support, just remember man....we're all still here for you