The frequency of sex is a concern to me because I don't want my woman walking around horny. Aslo, I don't want to be walking around horney, either.
My wife seems to get more accomodating later in the evening, and has little interest in sex during the day. Maybe a half hour before her alarm clock goes off, is the end of her arousal period.
So I am not sure how often my wife needs sex, to avoid getting horny during the day. I try to be sensitive to the moods of my wife, and what gets her aroused. I don't think a specific number of times per month or week or year is particularly important for a couple, but rather what sex means in the context of their time together.
I think that my being more assertive, in starting arousal processes, serves the intersts of a fathful relationship. Being pushy about sex is probably a disservice to fidelity.
I enjoy just cuddling with my wife, sex is not the only communication of Love.
It would be hard to estimate how many times a woman will desire sex, because hormones are active in the teenage years, and after having a child or three, the hormones calm down.
Understanding couples sometimes work out supplemental maturbation arrangements, when there is a difference in the frequency of desire for sex.
The difference in the desire for frequency of sex may be a frequent complaint in couples who divorce, but those complaints may be more a reflection of an overall inabiltiy to accomodate their partner, on several levels, rather than a real problem with the difference in the frequency of desire for sex.
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