If Women Were As Horny As Men

awakened · 09-10-10

cbrmale and trond, You are incredibly sexy holding such an intelligent conversation. Makes me fantasize about you two in the same room with me. Ya know, "Don't talk dirty, talk brainy" Well at least BEFORE sex. Then you can get to the dirty talk

Trond · 09-10-10

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Originally Posted by cbrmale

I have a degree which includes anthropological psychology, which is where I learned these things. This was the subject matter of my thesis, which is why I know so much about Polynesian and African sex. Many early explorers wrote about what they discovered, before it was changed by Christian missionaries. Yes, it is written. Australian aboriginals are one of the oldest societies on earth, dating back at least 40,000 years, and probably longer. Polynesian society was fratriarchal, which then leads us to the theory of the matriarchy, but that's way off topic for a forum on sex.

I wasn't interested in primitive Europeans, as there was no evidence for my thesis.

My wife is, in fact, African, and the African view of polygamy is that it takes many women to deal with the burden of one man... She is actually the offspring of a polygamous marriage too! So its not exactly a harem (which is actually the female members and children of an Islamic household, and may or many not be polygamous, and generally didn't include concubines). The word harem is derived from the arabic word pronounced 'hareem', or forbidden for unrelated men.

Yes, I was using the word 'harem' in a slightly offhanded manner as it is often used in other contexts (the 'harem' of the Sassanian King or Chinese Emperor, or even the 'harem' of a male gorilla!

). OK, I still think my view of things is a bit more "down to earth" but such disagreements often occur with people of different backgrounds.

I do agree with you that Christian missionaries and the spread of Islam have changed sexual behaviors all over the planet, and many places were certainly more promiscuous earlier (in fact, some cultures may have put pressure on people to be promiscuous, which may be as bad as putting a lid on sexuality in others). Kind of sad, when you hear about old accounts of customs in such places as Tahiti, although I wonder if some of those accounts are a bit romanticized.

OK, I think I will stop hijacking this thread for now...Sorry, CL

Barbwire · 09-10-10

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Originally Posted by Trond

OK, I think I will stop hijacking this thread for now...Sorry, CL

Too late, you and cbrmale have wrung every ounce of hilarity out of it.

Lucky · 09-10-10

From my experience and in studying others I have to say that men at a younger age are hornier than women at a younger age. But as men age they are somewhat less so and as women age they are somewhat moreso.

Meee · 09-11-10

LOL. I watched it. They stole that first conversation from me and my friends. And the scene in bed--I do that! So that proves it! I'm as horny as men!

And btw, my boyfriend doesn't mind at all when it wakes him up.

I laughed hardest when the woman was taken out. Good video--thank you for posting it.

Oh yes, and one word about horny women in ancient Greece: Sappho.

cbrmale · 09-11-10

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Originally Posted by Trond

Kind of sad, when you hear about old accounts of customs in such places as Tahiti, although I wonder if some of those accounts are a bit romanticized.

Some, or at least Awakened, may be amused or enlightened by this. You are right in that Tahiti was not quite as it is often portrayed. The girls who swam out to the Endeavour to have sex with the sailors were told to do this, to make friends with these white people who possessed such powerful craft. Being a fratricachal society, inheritance passed down the female line, so the young female aristocracy were sent away, well out of reach of the sailors.

However, Tahitian women of all levels had a great grasp of sexual pleasure. A common position was a woman sitting in a man's lap, and using vaginal muscle control to bring him to orgasm. Can you imagine an 18th Century sailor who's main source of sexual companionship was prostitutes in Portsmouth, experiencing this? Before a couple could marry, albeit non-monogamously, the man had to demonstrate he could pleasure their daughter, by demonstration. That is, they had sex in front of her parents. Young men and young women were taught the arts of sexual enjoyment, and then encouraged to experiment with one-another. We know a lot of the actuality of Tahitian sex as documented, because the Trobriand islands are like this today, except they are now overrun with children. The Tahitians practiced herbal abortion and infanticide.

There is no doubt that the major driver for the Bounty mutiny was the sexual charms of Tahitian women; something those sailors couldn't leave behind. And that is what the West has lost, and still hasn't quite found.

awakened · 09-11-10

For some unGodly reason I am speechless.

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Originally Posted by cbrmale

Some, or at least Awakened, may be amused or enlightened by this. You are right in that Tahiti was not quite as it is often portrayed. The girls who swam out to the Endeavour to have sex with the sailors were told to do this, to make friends with these white people who possessed such powerful craft. Being a fratricachal society, inheritance passed down the female line, so the young female aristocracy were sent away, well out of reach of the sailors.

However, Tahitian women of all levels had a great grasp of sexual pleasure. A common position was a woman sitting in a man's lap, and using vaginal muscle control to bring him to orgasm. Can you imagine an 18th Century sailor who's main source of sexual companionship was prostitutes in Portsmouth, experiencing this? Before a couple could marry, albeit non-monogamously, the man had to demonstrate he could pleasure their daughter, by demonstration. That is, they had sex in front of her parents. Young men and young women were taught the arts of sexual enjoyment, and then encouraged to experiment with one-another. We know a lot of the actuality of Tahitian sex as documented, because the Trobriand islands are like this today, except they are now overrun with children. The Tahitians practiced herbal abortion and infanticide.

There is no doubt that the major driver for the Bounty mutiny was the sexual charms of Tahitian women; something those sailors couldn't leave behind. And that is what the West has lost, and still hasn't quite found.

HardRocker · 09-11-10

That's actually quite interesting.

Meee · 09-12-10

Yes, that was very interesting.

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Originally Posted by cbrmale

A common position was a woman sitting in a man's lap, and using vaginal muscle control to bring him to orgasm.

I do that! I discovered it almost by accident. My boyfriend and I were in a position that wasn't working out for some reason. We couldn't move very well. So I said wait--maybe I can try something. So I tried different things and made this twitch and that twitch and soon I was working it out. I could only do it a little the first time, but now I can really do it.

I didn't even think about whether other girls did it, but then in my search for porn in the public library (long story), I found a novel that happened to have a scene in it where a man goes to a prostitute and she does exactly the same thing! I thought, "Oh. It's what prostitutes do." I felt dirty. But then I decided I like feeling dirty. The next time I started doing it on my boyfriend, I said, "I'm your little whore." LOL--did that start a discussion!

It's interesting to know that other women do it too. Thank you for posting that.

Barbwire · 09-12-10

Before I gave birth and screwed up my pelvic floor for good, I was able to do the old, "Hold still and let me squeeze your cock until you cum." routine. It was quite the crowd pleaser and I wish I still had the muscles for it.

Dragon_Fire · 09-13-10

Thanks for the reminder to practise those Kegels.

RebekkaXXX · 10-23-10

Men and women can be the same, society tells a different story...