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Originally Posted by Bohohippy  I'm another girl who hasn't cum with a guy... I put it down to not being confortable enough with one yet... Also being (all about the guys pleasure) doesn't help me much I suppose...
Try reading The Big O... it's an excellent book I'm reading all about the orgasm and how to get a girl to cum, and other tips... P.S has she achieved orgasm on her own...? and if she isn't TOO bothered about not getting there yet don't beat yourself up, it's good your trying and eventually she will, but being too bothered by it will make her self concious that she hasn't which will become a barrier and stop her even more. |
From my own personal experience for a woman to cum there needs to be a level of comfort on her behalf and a level of knowing and learning what you're doing on his behalf, and that means "learning" her body, no 2 women are the same.
My GF is far more orgasmic with me than anyone she's been with prior, we put it down to her being more relaxed and into it with me, and according to her im just simply better and more attentive to her body and what works for her (and i) than previous partners, but it takes time and a willingness on both's part to explore..
Truely great mind blowing sex doesn't happen over night.
