if you're asking each time you have sex then it may be putting added pressure on her to feel like she "has" to orgasm
just focus on giving her pleasure, maybe change things up a bit, take control (if she's into that) & try different positions
focus less on the actual orgasm & more on just HER, i'm lucky in the fact that a slight breeze can pretty much make me cum lol but some women have problems with it, doesn't mean the sex isn't enjoyable though
the less pressure you put on yourself (to give her an orgasm) & on her (to have an orgasm) the more likely you are to eventually reach that goal |