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Originally Posted by rockyraccoon2  Ok, I think it was the fact that I had masturbated earlier that day and had a lot of wine right before.
On the second time, I was able to get erection instantly. But this time, I shortened foreplay a lot and just put it in right away for fear that it would go away. But she was very dry so it actually hurt my penis (didn't use condom). I thrusted really hard trying to give it all I got, but my penis eventually went numb from the pain.
She seemed to be fine with it, and then wanted to get on top and ride me. But by then I had already been thrusting for a while, and when I turned over, the numbness made me lose erection. Also gravity doesn't help.
I then went down on her and after a little, I got hard again (I get really turned on going down on her), and she rode me for a while, but I think the pain and numbness was still in effect and I couldn't really feel much, and after a while I lost it again.
I think it was just the initial dryness and too much friction. Next time I will use a lubricated condom or put lube first. The sex didn't feel good. Our relationship is also not very intimate on other levels. I think we will break up.  |
Ok this happens all the time.. so first relax.
Whenever you go down on a girl for awhile, you aren't going to stay rock hard the entire time. I lose my hard on all the time when I do it for 10, 15+ minutes.
It's pretty easy to get hard again, once you know how to handle it. Basically I use three methods that always work, it's just knowing which one to use, then you are gold.
- Method 1, if you are semi soft and can't penetrate her, ask her to give you a BJ for a couple of minutes. This has always worked for me without fail.
- Method 2, when you are down there eating her out and you are ready to go inside her, start stroking yourself while you are still eating her out, and visualize what you are going to do next and how good it feels... this will usually get you hard enough for penetration.
- Method 3, if you put her legs on your shoulders, it makes it much easier to penetrate her when you aren't sporting a big hard on. I've used this method tons of times and it works great. Within 30s or less after being inside her, I am fully hard again.
It is all practice and repetition.. and knowing what your dick can and can't do.
You will learn when you are too soft to even penetrate her with the shoulders on the legs method, so you can a) ask for a bj or b.) manually stimulate yourself.
Using one of those three tricks should almost always work for you.