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Originally Posted by bakerloo  But here's the thing. I find my g/f of 2 years has become very plain, very average looking - her hair's natural coloured again (a mousey brown), she doesn't wear make up, she's wearing this comfortable beige underwear now, never lingerie, her clothes are totally unsexy. It's like she went from 23 to 63, in two years. I make comments. I say this, I say that, small things. I know it hurts her, but I can't not say it, because I'm getting desperate here. I love this girl, she is kind and sweet and for the first 9 months our sex life was great. Since then however, it's been one big, slow fade, and now and again, I just have to say something. |
It seems to me that you weren't attracted to the
real woman in the first place but rather a fake image of her. Why should she have to permanently dye her hair, wear make up and dress in sexy clothes. True, everyone should make some kind of effort to dress nice but they don't need to be dolled up 24/7, it's not natural. If you love her, you'd love her natural brown hair, her true face and you'd see past the boring clothes she wears.
Of course your sex life is going down hill, your comments must be making her feel like shit.
Maybe you should do her a favour and leave so that she can be happy with someone who appreciates her for who she really is.