I think that no amount of talking between these two people is going to help. That would not be true IF the problem was with both of them, but IMHO the problem is not hers, it's his and his alone.

He says he CAN'T stop making comments. She's happy when she's with her friends, and miserable when she's with him. He knows he's wrong but continues to treat her like shit.



"[I'm so immature, please, please help, what is it to be mature is this issue? I've been seeing girls as 2D objects to ogle and fuck - how can a good sex life go beyond good looks?]"

At least you are honest with yourself, bakerloo. You know what you are doing wrong so fix it and stop using your youthfulness as an excuse for your behavior.