You're brand new here so I'll take what you say with a grain of salt. I don't think your situation is really uncommon. I find that after 6 months to a year and a half, the things I thought were cute in a chick become annoying. It's not them, it really is me. I only had one girl in my life that improved with age, I loved her more every day for nine years. An illness took her away from me. I think maybe no one else could ever measure up, at least to me, so I pick them apart. I don't verbally criticize them, I just naturally become more and more distant, because the fire has gone out. You have to understand that nobody is perfect, and that we're all different. Try to see the inner beauty. Looks can fade fast but what's inside endures. Find someone you can respect and that you like as a person, that way the love part grows. I think all to often we fall in love with people we find physically attractive but really don't like that much. Having the best looking chick in the place ain't all it's cracked up to be. As you get to know them more you realize your mistake, and it gets worse. Find someone you like.