The Area Code exception?

Lol, so I was hanging out with this guy yesterday. And things went a little too far.

But I'm going to be in this other part of the country for a few more weeks. I'm wondering if I should bring it up to my boyfriend or if I should just forget it ever happened.

I saw Roadtrip for ever ago. And they mentioned this rule.

Is there really an exception to the cheating thing if you're in a different area code?

I think you know the answer already.

Caution: Swinging causes confidence.

I think you should tell him-

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

Okay, here's another part of it.

Why should I tell him when it's not going to hurt me at all, it's just going to hurt him?

It didn't mean shit to me. So why give him the grievance?

Still. This is an interesting question. Does it exist or NO?

It's not wise to take your code of moral conduct from a frat boy movie, IMHO.

You say it doesn't bother you one little bit, so why are you asking us about it? Are you sure it doesn't bother you just a little, perhaps?

Of course it bothers me. It just wasn't meaningful to me. There's a difference.

Here's the way I see it. When you cheat and you regret it, you should have to deal with that guilt as your punishment.

When you confess, you put that off on the other person. They're the one who ends up suffering the most, not you.

When I leave here, I'm never going to see that person again because they travel for work constantly. Not that I would even want to, anyway.

I know this to be true, because a friend of mine decided to tell her husband about her cheating on him a year after it happened when she was re-entering the church. Her pastor even told her NOT to tell her husband about the incident, but she did. They're still together, but he suffers constantly from depression. It wasn't to make him feel better at all. She told him so she could feel better about it.

Apparently, her pastor didn't believe in John 8:32.

Sorry about confusing the part where you said it didn't mean anything to you and thinking it meant it didn't bother you.

I'm sorry, but this sounds like selfish excuses of a cheater. Sorry, but they do. There is a reason that relationships should be based on trust-Maybe you're not serious enough about being in the relationship. I mean, I don't care if you take my advice or not, but you've asked opinions and I'm giving mine.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

I asked whether or not the rule existed. I didn't exactly ask for your opinion on cheating.

But I do agree with you - relationships should be based on trust. I've only been seeing my boyfriend for a for about a month, so that could have something to do with my lack of seriousness.

You didn't really give me advice either, you know. You just told me I was making selfish excuses.

If you read my earlier post, I did give you advice. It was to tell him. kthx

Oh, and for the record, that does NOT exist. Have fun!

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

Meow.

Definitely wasn't a frat boy movie. The guys involved were not in a fraternity, but that is besides the point.

Of coarse its cheating.

This, I know. I was trying to think about what the most accurate term for the genre would be, so, I made that one up.

I may have yo lobby my congressman to propose a new bill. The area code bill.

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I'm sure 80% of the politicians the bill is presented to will vote "Yeah. "Yeah, baby, yeah!" for it. It's the mother of all loopsholes for cheaters.

Bill Clinton's going to give himself a "Coulda had a V-8" slap on the forehead when he hears about it and realizes he should have thought of it first.