i'll have to read more of that... long post you linked to at some point, rocker - thanks.

i really really like teasing girls - i think that's a good thing to do to begin with. you should build her anticipation and wait until she's begging for it . so before you start going at it, just kind of lick around her snatch and breathe on it, touch the insides of her thighs.. that kind of thing. then maybe do something less passive like put your tongue actually inside of her rather than a finger, and move it around. then move on to the rest.

i agree with falsehope, because i've been with a girl who took for ever to get anywhere and another who was the opposite.